lavenderoselilies

@lavenderoselilies (17)

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Teen parenting

lburns70 @lburns70 (182) • United States 20 Jul 07

I have a 15 year old that is pregnant. She seems to be doing well with this but it is hard on the rest of the family. Has anyone been through this?

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lavenderoselilies hi again , my best advice is to try to hang in there and where there is coopration there will be success with out that there may not be any success. She has to still have a goal in life and know that now she respondsable for another life's well being . having...

27 Jul 07

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Child Support

disvachic @disvachic (10117) • United States 9 Dec 06

I was watching a special on tv and they were saying that they are trying to make it a felony for those who owe back child support.Do you think this is to harsh? I think it should be a felony.Mine owe me over $5,000

childsupport

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lavenderoselilies hi how are you doing? i'm ok i think that it should not be a felony because we all make mistakes . i know that there are alot of parents male and female that are put in situation that child support have got them jammed up. from a child that a male name is on a...

27 Jul 07

African-Americans: Light-skinned vs. Dark-skinned

ChampagneGiggles @ChampagneGiggles (699) • United States 23 Jul 07

What's with us people? Why do we feel the need to create subcategories within our group (dark, medium, light)? You see women who only like light-skinned guy (or vice-versa), and you see men who only like light-skinned women. I...

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lavenderoselilies hi i strongly believe that people have choices but sometime people limit themselves . cause you see a light skin woman don't mean she got all the things you are looking for in her . cause the dark woman may have all things you want and desire. what in the...

24 Jul 07

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Adoption

lburns70 @lburns70 (182) • United States 23 Jul 07

I have found it hard to talk about my past life but here recently when I found out that my teen daughter is pregnant I have opened up. Without people condeming me. 18 years ago I was pregnant and I chose to give her up for...

adoption

babies

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lavenderoselilies hi i hope that things work out for you and your daughter. baby are always a joy but the come with hard work and belive that now that she is pergant now she was to become respondable for her action . she has to get a job to support her child cause now she is...

24 Jul 07

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the disappearing community

sandwedge @sandwedge (1339) • Malaysia 23 Jul 07

i am starting to see a trend in mylot ever since the low earnings issue started. i realize a lot of people joined, starts a few discussions and then disappears after about 10 responses/discussions. as for those who are already in...

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lavenderoselilies i don't know cause i did just join.so i hope that it stays aroubd so people can share experiances and life.

24 Jul 07

My Husband Mowed the Carpet!

d_hapke @d_hapke (165) • United States 24 Jul 07

Not to laugh at my husband's expense... BUT! A few months ago we bought a new vacuum cleaner. It promised not to lose suction (NO, not that ONE...!!) Being a gadget guy, he figured he would vacuum our bedroom carpet. I was...

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husband

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lavenderoselilies that was so cute and funny. mine really at that stuff i have no stories.

24 Jul 07

if god exists, the leprechaun exists, the flying teapot exists etc etc...

fightingistheonlyway @fightingistheonlyway (2658) • Canada 23 Jul 07

god's existence is illogical, however, cannot be disproven. if god exists, there is no reason why zues and other things exists. therefore, if god exists, there is more than one god and many other things that cannot be...

ninja turtles

religion

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lavenderoselilies what people believe is there affair and yous hould critize other people belif even if you feel that it is not true. but just what created everying that is in existance?

24 Jul 07

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children play grounds

lavenderoselilies @lavenderoselilies (17) 13 Jul 07

Hi , i was wondering what people thought about playgrounds and there safty. where i live i have a old playground. my baby girl fall on a want a be step made from old wood. Do you i should go ahead and start a projcet to get up...

life

I'm cheesed off....

MsTickle @MsTickle (25180) • Australia 12 Jul 07

I went grocery shopping last 3 days ago and on my list was milk. I buy powdered skim milk because fresh milk is not readily available and I drink lots. Imagine my shoch when I arrived home and checked my docket. I normally pay...

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lavenderoselilies i love cheeese. i just bought cheese acouple a days ago and i spent 4.00 for just 1lb block. i love cheese i like it on alot of things . when you have children they love ceral. where i live they have this sale where you buy 3 or 4 box of ceral and get 2...

13 Jul 07

Each of us is like an individual raindrop...

tinamwhite @tinamwhite (3252) • United States 12 Jul 07

I was sitting here at my window watching the rain fall....small drops of rain were falling into a puddle made by all of the reent rains....it came to my mind that each of us in life, is like a single raindrop....falling from...

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lavenderoselilies i feel the same way.

13 Jul 07

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Do any of you NOT watch TV?

cassidy22 @cassidy22 (2974) • United States 12 Jul 07

My husband and I recently bought a farm and moved to the country. There is no cable service, and we can't even get the local channels because we are down in a valley. We decided NOT to get satellite TV, and we haven't watched TV...

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lavenderoselilies Hi, i have not had a tv in my house for at least 5 years. i have a computer . i can pick and choose what i want to see. i have saved money and also been able to get things done around the house. the money that i saved i've been able to take international trips...

13 Jul 07

Females: Do you wear make-up everyday?

dafnie @dafnie (382) • United States 12 Jul 07

I started wearing make-up ever since I was 12 years old. It wasn't too serious just a little powder here and there and lip gloss because I have oily skin. Then when I got to middle school, girls started wearing more make up and...

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lavenderoselilies i personal don't like make-up cause alot make uses animal fat but there are make-up that doesn't have it now days but natural is better .there are natural make-up that you can make yourself. you can search it out on the web.

13 Jul 07

Would you be a little suspicious with this?

brendalee @brendalee (6082) • United States 11 Jul 07

Okay, so lets say you have a 15 year old son and he has been bugging you for about a week to exchange some change for him into bills or at least take him to the bank. He says its only about $22 that he wants exchanged. He tells...

money

saving change

teenagers

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lavenderoselilies hi ,i think that if you know your child is a good kid and he doesn't get into wrong things than you should help him. if you notice that the bag was bigger than the last time ,than you should ask him about it. if you trust your child than so be it. if you don't...

12 Jul 07

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what is the right church, what church saves

ruth12 @ruth12 (49) • Philippines 12 Jul 07

on this days there are so many churches and it is hard to choose one what do you think is good. and it is does this churches saves soul?

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lavenderoselilies I don't believe that a church saves souls or a person like a preacher,etc can save souls because we are accountable for or own souls and we will be held accountable for our deeds.You know who is able to help your soul . It is the one that created the soul.

12 Jul 07

How do you respond to stress?

milfea @milfea (519) • Philippines 12 Jul 07

Two days ago, I listened to a professor who talked about stress, how to cope with it, and probably almost everything about it. There was this statement he made that made me go, "Oh really?!" He made a statement about the two types...

coping

solution

stress

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lavenderoselilies hi, i deal with stress by means of prayer and facing reality.alot of times people like you said take the flight approuch but little do they know that it just causes more stress cause they are not facing the reality of their situtaion. whatever is for you ,...

12 Jul 07

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