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Always smiling @allknowing (130066) • India 30 Jan 13

Do you think Double income no kids or DINKS as they are called need to be lauded? Or do you think they are the selfish lot thinking only about themselves. All of us need to care for someone and that is why married couples produce...

dinks

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lhy1609 vandana7 wonderful discussion!

5 Feb 13

Always smiling @allknowing (130066) • India 30 Jan 13

Do you think Double income no kids or DINKS as they are called need to be lauded? Or do you think they are the selfish lot thinking only about themselves. All of us need to care for someone and that is why married couples produce...

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lhy1609 mommyboo it's the truth that nobody owes to another person anything,not to mention the society at large.moreover,there is no posibility that our world could not sustain because of the paucity of population,because vast majority of people around the world are...

3 Feb 13

Always smiling @allknowing (130066) • India 30 Jan 13

Do you think Double income no kids or DINKS as they are called need to be lauded? Or do you think they are the selfish lot thinking only about themselves. All of us need to care for someone and that is why married couples produce...

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lhy1609 vandana7 i know women are in low social status in india.there so many unfairness in there.in this point,child rearing is not just a natural desire but also a smell of controlling on women.so maybe a woman want to be dinks is a symbol of independence.right?

3 Feb 13

Always smiling @allknowing (130066) • India 30 Jan 13

Do you think Double income no kids or DINKS as they are called need to be lauded? Or do you think they are the selfish lot thinking only about themselves. All of us need to care for someone and that is why married couples produce...

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lhy1609 vandana7 i admit the phenomenon you mentioned is popular indeed,at least in my country.women are hard to breathe thanks to the sisyphean houseworks.job stuffs and child rearing.so,child upbringing is not a joyous work.but,in fact,some parents perceived...

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Always smiling @allknowing (130066) • India 30 Jan 13

Do you think Double income no kids or DINKS as they are called need to be lauded? Or do you think they are the selfish lot thinking only about themselves. All of us need to care for someone and that is why married couples produce...

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lhy1609 allknowing so,in your point,cuz we are all owe sth to society,so we couldn't live the lives as DINKS which is selfish,and then ,we should raise child,right? the reason i set a premise is to illustrate that DINKS,if are chose by vast majority of people around...

31 Jan 13

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Scoopzz @Scoopzz (54) • United States 29 Jan 13

Ever stop to think why that person cut in front of you in line, why did that person zoomed ahead of you to get that parking space? I often try to think why that person is being like that. Are they just rude by nature or is...

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lhy1609 yeah,someone are likely to act as they were before or even more wicked after the so called "punishment".but it is the veneer. if we strip it away,we could find that what under this so called "punishment" is "reinforcement" squarely.for example,a girl are...

31 Jan 13

Always smiling @allknowing (130066) • India 30 Jan 13

Do you think Double income no kids or DINKS as they are called need to be lauded? Or do you think they are the selfish lot thinking only about themselves. All of us need to care for someone and that is why married couples produce...

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lhy1609 "DINKS" is more and more popular aroud the world,meantime,it stirs many debates.first and foremost,there is a premise that the DINKS will never become the mainstream of the population.this is a fact,not a judgement. Under the premise,i think people,whether...

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Scoopzz @Scoopzz (54) • United States 29 Jan 13

Ever stop to think why that person cut in front of you in line, why did that person zoomed ahead of you to get that parking space? I often try to think why that person is being like that. Are they just rude by nature or is...

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lhy1609 i'm sorry,the "enforcement" and "enforced" mentioned above should be "reinforcement" and "reinforced"

30 Jan 13

Scoopzz @Scoopzz (54) • United States 29 Jan 13

Ever stop to think why that person cut in front of you in line, why did that person zoomed ahead of you to get that parking space? I often try to think why that person is being like that. Are they just rude by nature or is...

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lhy1609 My major is psychology,"enforcement" is the first term floated to my head when i see your topic. In perspective of Behaviorism,certain behavior will be recur if it is enforced and will disappear if it is punished,broadly speaking,enforcement is linked with...

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aubrey @averygirl72 (37716) • Philippines 29 Jan 13

Is it bad if you are bookish? I love reading and I love books but I am not really studious in fact I am lazy with school studies. I am excited when I am inside a library while others found it boring. I am building my small...

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lhy1609 i am bookish,but i am not a nerd. reading is a interesting and funny thing,why should i sick of it? but,as you mentioned,you are lazy with school studies.oh,i have to say,school studies are at best one kind of reading.reading could not be confined in any...

30 Jan 13

pahak627 @pahak627 (4558) • Philippines 23 Jan 13

In our place, there are lots of people asking for money in the streets who look healthy and well. I observed that some people whom they asked money from won't give them with comments that these beggars should work in order to earn...

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lhy1609 It's coincidence that i see the beggar you talk about everyday.In my place,they are dubbed "Beggar Gangs" which composed of both healthy people and unhealthy people. I wanna share a real story of mine to you. It's a common afternoon when i was in high...

24 Jan 13

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etavasi @etavasi (749) • Malaysia 21 Nov 12

When i look on the mirror i see my self fat, big tummy, and feel like over weight. In my house i got two exercise machine the bike and abs pro. In my mind i always think i want to exercise but when ever i do, i only do it in the...

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lhy1609 oh,dear friend may be many people do it as you,including me of course.my experience is that dividing the exercise task into various sections.it means that you couldn't do too much exercise for one time.for example,you want to lope 2 kilometers...

22 Nov 12

jureathome @jureathome (5361) • Philippines 22 Nov 12

I've been getting these free membership cards from the mall, shopping center and even from the pharmacy. But, I have never gotten any benefit from it. It just crowds my wallet and I see no use for them. These cashiers would...

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lhy1609 eh... i have the experience as well,there are so many membership cards in my house,but vast majority of them are useless but for a collection.yes,if i want to find out what advantage these things are,just for a collection. but many people are remain ready to...

22 Nov 12

maximax8 @maximax8 (31053) • United Kingdom 2 Nov 12

I have been working out a budget and it shows my largest expense is my mortgage. The next highest expenses are food and drink costs. Food and drink prices are going up all the time. I buy loads when I find a special offer like buy...

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lhy1609 The vast majority of my money goes to basic living including foods,clothes and some other incidentals like phone bill and so forth. I'm student now..

3 Nov 12

meumeu25 @meumeu25 (917) • United Arab Emirates 2 Nov 12

I've been browsing on my lot for a few minutes now and couldn't find a topic that truly appeals to me. So I decided to start one except that I couldn't think of any. I know times like this is usual to everybody, so instead of...

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lhy1609 uh.. perhaps it happens when i in a situation that demand me respond to a difficult question as quick as possible,like in my interview of graduate entrance text.it leaves 10 minutes for me to prepare for 3 professional questions,i have to acknowledge those...

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chaobreeder16 @chaobreeder16 (425) 4 Oct 12

A few weeks I helped coach a friend for a job interview at a new premier Inn hotel that is just about to open. Out of 2000 people she got the job and I am thrilled for her but now she is talking about not taking it even though it...

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lhy1609 May be you should let her really know that she is excellent,otherwise,she will not be the only one who pass the interview among so many competitors. Her old job is no longer deserve to linger on.i guess she is not really wanna do that job.she is just afraid...

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