lindenmayer

@lindenmayer (25)

United States • Age 35

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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are you like Santa when it comes to giving second chances?

totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 8 Mar 09

strange, i know. the thing is, one thing i have noticed about me is that, i a hardly give second chances to the people around me. i've been confronted by my mom lately regarding about my father. who is really trying his very...

life

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lindenmayer Without forgiveness you can't recover from the damage they've bestoyed upon you. I like to say 'Always forgive, never forget.' This wall that you're building up is a defense mechanism. You build this wall to protect yourself. You should never have to suffer...

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torn between to lovers???

pinky_laces @pinky_laces (77) • Philippines 8 Mar 09

the situation goes like this. There is a girl who has a boyfriend for 3 years now. I dont know what you call what she feel towars that guy because even if she caught that bf cheating on her twice already, she still forgive her...

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lindenmayer Wow. I'm no guru on relationships but I can tell you this much... a one-sided relationship isn't a relationship. The boyfriend apparently doesn't have trouble finding girls because he has cheated on his girlfriend numerous times before. My older sister was in...

9 Mar 09

Do you run to write the first response of the discussion?

jziakhan @jziakhan (701) • Pakistan 9 Mar 09

I know I do, since everyone always reads the first response of the discussion to get an idea of what to write, and I hate it if someone beats me to it. Do you love writing the first response of a discussion and hope that the...

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lindenmayer Hmmm, I never thought about that. I know that I don't exactly race to be the first to respond. In all honesty I usually don't even read the other responses unless it's a topic I'm really really interested in. For the most part I just read the initial post and...

9 Mar 09

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Rising Taxes On Cigarettes

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 8 Mar 09

Well here in Minnesota we now have another $1 added to each pack. I smoke a lot and this higher price has now made me buy roll your own tobacco. It is a lot cheaper and I feel I'll smoke less and possibly qwuit due to the high...

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lindenmayer That is incredibly expensive. I know that my sister has a hard time affording cigarettes and it has caused her to smoke less. Mind you she still smokes the same brand she did before the prices skyrocketed. I don't know how much they went up in Kentucky but I...

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I want my stuff back!

paula27661 @paula27661 (15811) • Australia 8 Mar 09

I lent my friend my favourite jacket and I am still waiting for it to returned! We have lost touch a while back; she had my jacket for a few months back then. I guess I won't be wearing the jacket anymore if she returned it...

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lindenmayer Oh wow. I'm sorry to hear that you lost your jacket to someone. In my opinion, you should just let it go. You're not going to get it back, she might have already thrown it away, and even if she hasn't you really don't want to have to talk to her in order to...

9 Mar 09

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I have to got to Doctor tomorrow~~~

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 4 Mar 09

I hope everything is all right with me. I haven't been since this summer I feel fine, but I went to my Spiritual Advicer a couple a months ago and she told me I need to go see a Doctor. I know what you are going to say, you don't...

blood cells

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lindenmayer I wouldn't be too worried. If she just now noticed something and she's good at what she does then it's something more recent. And considering that she's telling you to go to the doctor she probably thinks that there is still time to help your body with...

4 Mar 09

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Do you prefer to keep maid or work by yourself?

achinthya @achinthya (1216) • India 4 Mar 09

When we work by ourselves we keep everything clean and good but nowadays everyone is busy and feeled bored to do so we prefer to keep some maid to work either full time or part time.Do you do your household work by yourself or...

cooking

servants

to clean the house

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lindenmayer Wow, I couldn't imagine having a maid. I'm not woohoo crazy about cleaning but I really enjoy having a break from work and still being able to be productive. When I clean I just turn up the music and sing my heart out. It's fun and doesn't take focus or...

4 Mar 09

Help needed finding books!!!

gdesjardin @gdesjardin (1918) • United States 3 Mar 09

I have a friend that recently has become ill, so she can no longer work. She is on an extremely limited budget while she waits for her disabled to be approved. Due to her poor health, the only thing she can really do is...

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lindenmayer Oh I started this hunt sometime last year and found a couple interesting sites. You can visit bibliomania and they have a lot of classic literature. Googlebooks also has a lot of online books that give you "preview" access but this can sometimes be the entire...

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help i'm being burried alive!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bellaofchaos @bellaofchaos (11538) • United States 3 Mar 09

Why does it seem that the laundry never ever stops getting bigger .. I can do about 7 loads of Laundry and there appears another 7 in it's place. Why is that? Have you ever felt that the laundry seems to have a mind of it's own...

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lindenmayer Oh I hate when I do laundry and at the end of the day I have to put the clothes I was wearing in the dirty hamper. It makes me feel like all of my efforts were wasted. And I would imagine living with 6 other people you're going to have a load of laundry to do...

4 Mar 09

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Help! Should I still come to class or not?

phyrethyme @phyrethyme (1267) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

I went to class this morning after skipping class thrice. Once I skipped class cause I had to study for a major exam. Twice I skipped because I was sick. Thrice because I had to do stuff for my grandmother's funeral. The other...

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lindenmayer If you back out now then you're only proving your professor right. Stick it out and keep trying. It's a lot easier to just finish the class then wait it out and take it again. I had an emotional break down last semester and I missed a lot of classes. I ended...

3 Mar 09

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Thanks myLot!

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 2 Mar 09

Recently I started a discussion that was spammed as some of you that responded will know. I was worried that the whole discussion was going to be deleted even though a fellow myLot friend tried to re-assure me! I really didn't...

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lindenmayer Wow, I'm new to myLot and I was worried about something like that. Because if your discussion is deleted then there's no way you could make any earnings off of your posts. I really like the way myLot handles the situation with spammers. Thanks for letting...

3 Mar 09

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which do you prpefer, typing, speak or writing?

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 2 Mar 09

Maybe I am late to learn, but still I would share my feeling with my friends. Yesterday, my son brought back a "write and show" board for his computer. After draw scatches of a street scene, with buildings, trees and cars, my...

computer

software

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lindenmayer I think it all depends on my mood. For the most part I enjoy speaking to someone about it, because I'm able to get a response then in there. I could be so caught up in the moment that I'm not noticing something obvious. I also have a tendency to say things...

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What are some good websites to earn extra money?

MichGurl @MichGurl (144) • United States 2 Mar 09

I've been looking for some websites to earn some extra money from home, which have turned up quite a few, but they all take so long to earn money on. As of right now, besides spending time here, I'm also a member of Neobux,...

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lindenmayer Hey, I would be weary of sites that ask you for your money, since a lot of these turn out to be scams. For a list of legitimate online jobs you can visit workathomedesk for starters. You can also google Legitimate online jobs and give yourself a few...

3 Mar 09

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will you love or marry a foreign man or woman?

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 2 Mar 09

Hey friends.do you love or marry a foreign man or woman?or do you have any friends did so ? are they happy and what is the big problem for them?how do you think of that?sometiems i think it is hard to be together cause you are...

foreign man or woman

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lindenmayer I truely believe that love is blind, and that it shouldn't matter what race or gender your lover is. As far as differences between cultures, I think it would be hard but definitely possible. I wouldn't give up someone over their race or cultural background. If...

3 Mar 09

If you have to pee...

Bethany1202 @Bethany1202 (3431) • United States 2 Mar 09

If you're feeling really lazy, and you have to pee a little, do you ever hold it rather than going right away? I know it isn't good for me, but if I am really comfortable or engrossed in a television show or movie, for example,...

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lindenmayer Yes! That's why we have sphincter muscles! To control it! I agree, it's not good but it's not going to kill you. Once it gets so bad you'll just pee yourself so... you're fine.

3 Mar 09