ljames

@ljames (30)

United States • Age 56

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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People cutting down southerners

bicklelady @bicklelady (1404) • United States 17 Mar 07

I was on a discussion and was reading what other people wrote. They was calling southern people hillbillies. That makes me so mad. What makes people that probably never even been in the south, call another person a hillbillies. I...

southern

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ljames I think the south is as diverse as anywhere else. I was born a 'yankee", but I lived in Arkansas for 7 years. I met and married a wonderful southern gentleman while I was there. The south does have some friendly people, and some hillbillies, also some...

18 Mar 07

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infidelity

ljames @ljames (30) • United States 16 Mar 07

If your have ever been cheated on, what did you do? Keep the man? Confront the other woman? What is your opinion on revenge? I had it happen to me a while back and did stay with and forgive my husband. We worked really hard at...

cheated on

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What do you think of Other Woman?

teyang @teyang (136) • Philippines 12 Feb 07

Do you hate them, pity them, or you understand them? Why? Why there are woman who enters in this kind of situation? Whose to blame the women or the married man?

married man

other woman

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ljames Well, I think they are both to blame. Sometimes a man lies and says he is single, so that makes it hard to blame her. If she knowingly involves herself with a taken man, then hopefully they both get what they deserve. Personally, I think that a woman who tries...

16 Mar 07

do you let your animals sleep in your bed?

mossjanicelynn @mossjanicelynn (1240) • United States 16 Mar 07

we all feel so much more comfortable

pets

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ljames We have no choice, they sleep where they want. The cats spend more time on our bed than we do. If they are not there, I would get up and look for them.

16 Mar 07

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Circumcision - NOT ABUSE!

Foxxee @Foxxee (3651) • United States 16 Mar 07

I don't know about you, but I'm tired of reading about circumcision on infant boys being abusive. I honestly don't see a problem with it. I don't think it's mutilation like some say it is. I mean isn't the meaning of mutilation...

circumcision

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ljames I had all three of my boys circumcised and do not think it is abusive. I let my husband decide since I felt like as a woman, it was not my place, and he wanted it done. He thinks it is cleaner and better for a man medically speaking. It just seems that some...

16 Mar 07

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Does Childbirth Hurt?

icemaldita @icemaldita (325) • Philippines 16 Mar 07

Pregnancy and childbirth! One word -OUCH! If you are pregnant and expecting your first child, don't believe anyone that says it won't hurt - it will. But there is an upside. There is a point in labour when the pain is actually...

wife

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ljames As far as i can remember, childbirth hurts a lot. When I was in labor with my first, my mother and mother in law kept telling me that I would "forget" the pain. They were just trying to help me through it, but they were wrong! It was hard and very painful, but...

16 Mar 07

What would you do?

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 15 Mar 07

A long time ago I was sleeping on my sofa and my children were on the floor. It was the only room with A/C and it was a really hot night. I was woken up to a young man standing over me with a wooden pole. I sat up quickly and...

life

people

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ljames I congratulate you on your quick thinking. You should be very proud. I honestly don't know what I would do, and I doubt it would be anywhere close to as good as what you did. It would be very hard to wake up so suddenly and still be able to think clearly. I...

15 Mar 07

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Do you ever sit with your teeth gritted, on edge because of a simple cartoon?

tanniebabe78 @tanniebabe78 (2934) • United States 15 Mar 07

I have a few that just bug me to no end! I just don't understand where it comes from. We have one called Backyardagins. The premise would be cute, if the characters weren't so annoying. I sit here trying to work and concentrate...

mother

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ljames I don't really like Backyardigans either, but my 3 year old loves them! I let him watch, and try to tune it out. Although they seem harmless, what is the benefit to kids? I just don't see it.

15 Mar 07

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Willow

ljames @ljames (30) • United States 15 Mar 07

I think that Willow is such a loser. She's like a re-make of Nicole, only more pathetic! I realize they need some villans, but I wish she would just go away like Nicole did. Am I being to harsh, or does anyone agree with me?

dont like willow

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What would you have said ??

weemam @weemam (13372) 11 Mar 07

Ok I am cuddly I admit it , but I get on with everyone , I have loads of friends , and I would not knowingly hurt a fly . About two years ago I was at Mum and Dads visiting and someone I knew for years back came walking along the...

pleas be honest

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ljames What a rude woman. I don't know what I would have said, I'm sure it was quite a shock. I probably would have just tried to agree and laugh it off, but then got away ASAP, just like you did. The fact that you did not tell her how you felt about her looks just...

12 Mar 07

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Season 6

ljames @ljames (30) • United States 12 Mar 07

I just found out that season six will start on April 3. I am very excited, we have been waiting a long time. I believe that Vic will find out who killed Lem, but they will draw it out a bit. Does anyone think that he will let...

what will vic do

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When your husband hurts you.

mrbranan @mrbranan (1012) • United States 10 Mar 07

Has any one out there ever been hurt by your husband and after a while he says I'm sorry and thinks that should be the end of it. Well what my husband doesn't get is sometimes I'm sorry isn't good enough. I need time to get over...

husbands

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ljames I can't speak for all men, but experience with my husband has taught me that sometimes, when a man says he is sorry, it really is the end of it for him. It is hard for them to let a woman vent, because in their minds, if they apologize sincerely, then that is...

12 Mar 07

Older of younger partner...which do you prefer?

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 11 Mar 07

My current bf is 5 years older than me. He has the same age with my eldest brother...he can be my brother already. Our age difference is not a big hindrance since I think more mature than my age. I'm 25 while he's 30! I like the...

age

love

relationship

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ljames My husband is 7 years younger than I am. I think it's great! It has never been an issue for us except for a little joking around now and then. I think if you find love with someone and feel they are the right person for you, age is not really a problem. I love...

11 Mar 07

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'Berserk' house cat sends owner to hospital

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63235) • United States 11 Mar 07

This is scary - I'm glad my cats aren't like this guy HAILEY, Idaho (AP) -- A house cat attacked its owner, sending her to the hospital by ambulance with more than 20 bite wounds. The cat, a black and white domestic male,...

cats

mean cat

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ljames We had an incident with our 8 month old male kitten when we brought a puppy into the house. He is normally the most gentle and loving cat, but he went nuts with fear and attacked my husband. He bit him in several places on his hands and scratched his arms,...

11 Mar 07

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How should we reduce the population?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 12 Feb 07

With the increase in environmental destruction due to the large human population on this planet, how should we reduce the number of people on the earth? How about stopping Health treatment for the over 65's as they are no...

environment

population

reduce

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ljames Do you really believe in what you are saying? If so, then I feel sorry for you. Your logo says "vegans care" What do they care about? How is it yours or anyone else's place to decide who should or should not be allowed to live on the planet or if they should...

13 Feb 07

Did your parents make mistakes when raising you?

awonderfullife @awonderfullife (2893) • United States 12 Feb 07

It seems many people blame their parents for things that have gone wrong in their life. Or they'll say they want to raise their kids differently than they were raised. Of course no parents are perfect, but do you parent your...

family

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ljames Yes, I think my parents made plenty of mistakes with me and my brothers. However, I can't say that I blame them for all of my problems or anything. None of us is perfect, but sometimes you have to look at the intentions behind the actions. I had to become a...

13 Feb 07

Do you get along with your mother in law?

mstay4 @mstay4 (69) • United States 9 Feb 07

I was just wondering how many women get along with their mother in laws? You always hear the horror stories so I was wondering what kind of experiences you have had with her good or bad? Does she interfere in your relationship?...

wife

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ljames I call my husband's mother Mama. I am very lucky to have her. She has always been very respectful and kind to me. There have been many times that I have gone to her with problems that I would not speak to my own mother about. She is woman aho has seen and done...

11 Feb 07

Does anyone have any potty training tricks?

rurandi @rurandi (5) • Canada 5 Feb 07

I have a 2 and a half year old son, who will not potty train! My son will go as for as asking to go and then sitting on the potty, but NOTHING ever...err... comes out! I have tried bribbing him with candy and making sticker...

potty train

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ljames My youngest son was scared of the potty chair for some reason, so we had a special book that he picked and we read it only when he was sitting on the potty. This seemed to help him relax. Also, I went cold turkey on the diapers and pull-ups. We went straight...

8 Feb 07