mbokratu

@mbokratu (22)

Indonesia • Age 54

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Would you dare to go bare?

jojo732 @jojo732 (294) 5 Dec 10

Hi my lotters It's not what you think ,my question is would you go out without putting on makeup, dare to go bare? I have only worn make up a couple of times in my life,I have been working with a woman who only wears lippy if...

makeup

male makeup

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mbokratu It's usual for me to go out without make up. I like my appearance and it's no problem if people know my face without make up. No reason, i just like what i am like.

5 Dec 10

why are babies so cute!!!!???

ktmatunog @ktmatunog (912) • Philippines 5 Nov 10

I wonder why... Is it because of their innocence? Is it because they are small and dimunitive? Is it because they are naive? Is it because they are curious on things? etc. etc. What do you think so? Why are they so cuddly,...

babies

cute

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mbokratu The smell of the baby is so sweet and i like it. Sounds of the baby is like a song. So beautiful to be heard even no meaning, only cheerful.

5 Dec 10

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how does it feel to have a baby? share your stories.

jerrami_12 @jerrami_12 (26) • Philippines 29 Nov 10

When i gave birth last April 27, 2010 at Ceasarian section of a cute lil angel, it was really unexplanable. It was scary at first because i really thought i would die at the time i was giving birth, thank god we were safe. The...

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mbokratu Having a baby is like an angel come to my house. It's so surprised, so amazing. It can't be expressed in words.

5 Dec 10

did you already find your true love?^^

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13107) • Portugal 3 Dec 10

hi guys did you already find your true love? or not yet? about me i think that my ex is my true love sometimes i really feel that way when we talk but sometimes i dont know what to think. but he is cute and i dont...

find

love

true

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mbokratu I think i have found my true love. He is my husband. I can't live without him. If he doesn't appear even it's only e few hours. i miss him. i feel safe beside him. It's my true love, right?

5 Dec 10

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How deep is your love to your partner?

mtrguanlao @mtrguanlao (5522) • Philippines 4 Dec 10

Can you measure the love for your partner? Honestly,I cannot measure the love I have for my husband because that's how I'm deeply in love with him. Corny it may sound but that's the truth. Simply because he made me feel I'm...

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mbokratu I have been living with my husband for 15 years, so i can't imagine to live without him. I can't express my love in words. He is my husband, friend, father and partner. I love him deeply.

5 Dec 10

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Is crying a sign of weakness for men?

yna410 @yna410 (429) • Philippines 22 Nov 10

Why do most grown men don't cry? Is it just their nature or is it because of the myth that crying is a sign of weakness particularly on men? Based on my personal experience, I rarely see men who cry or become quite emotional. It's...

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mbokratu It's something really hurt that can make men cry. But i don't appreciate for a man that cries just for a little thing. It will show that the man is weak. So, i think it depends on the situation.

28 Nov 10

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Boyfriend/Girlfriend when is the legal age? Why?

visavis @visavis (5934) • Philippines 27 Nov 10

We are protected parents. Why? Because we want our children to complete, focus, finish first their study so we are always reminding them to study first before getting boy/girlfriend relationship. Is it rue that such...

boyfriend

girlfriend

parents

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mbokratu I have teenager kid too, and i protected her. I always tell her to have relationship after finishing her school because the first duty of her is studying. I'm afraid if she has had relationship with boyfriend, she will not focus on her studies. I am strict...

28 Nov 10

If you also love two or more persons,what will you do?

qq826930041 @qq826930041 (29) • China 27 Nov 10

The people is such complex that love more persons at the same time.In that case,you won't get a ture love.So we should distinguish to that one is ture love.For other lover say goodbye.You should cherish the one who really love...

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mbokratu It's normal to love more than one person in our life. If it happens, we have to choose we love much. Only our heart know what we like of the man or the woman. We can not love two persons in equal, right?

27 Nov 10

Love marriages usually end with divorce...

dante_off @dante_off (607) • India 21 Nov 10

This is what I have been hearing since I was a kid, "Love marriages usually end in divorce". Well I haven't experienced any such situation or haven't even seen anything related to that, I feel like its never possible when two...

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mbokratu Before married, the couple only know about good thing of each other. After marriage, everything comes in reality. Marriage is relationship between two people with different character, habit, act, etc. After getting together in one home everyday, they will bad...

27 Nov 10

Is divorce better than bad marriage?

AjaySinghBaghel @AjaySinghBaghel (5506) • India 3 Nov 10

Modern lifestyles have taken a toll on social relationships, especially marriage. More and more couples are in a degenerating marriage with excessive conflict, a lack of intimacy, or poor communication. They are faced with...

divorce

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mbokratu Marriage is a commitment between two people. If one of the couple break the commitment, it will hurt the partner. Everybody has problem, but if the problem cannot be solved by marriage couple, i think it's really hard to continue the marriage. Marriage is not...

27 Nov 10

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Living away from family.

kqara0 @kqara0 (28) • Canada 26 Nov 10

Anyone here lives away from their family and beloved ones? How do you deal with it? How do you deal with the loneliness, the challenges of finding new friends to substitute your loved ones that live away and the maintaining the...

distance

loneliness

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mbokratu I have had lived away from my family for ten days to take a little job. It was really hard for me not to think about my husband and kids, but my job and friend make me fine. Sharing together with friends about our families will make us more pleasant.

27 Nov 10

can you work even you have problem?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 26 Nov 10

i have a family problem and i dont know how to solve it. it will distract and interrupt my mind when im in my job, i cant think and focus to my work so i have to set aside my problem,forget it for 8 hours duty, so i can finish my...

problem

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mbokratu I am a teacher so i don't want to bother my students with my unsolved problem. I have to solve my problem sooner so can do my job well. Keep unsolved problem is not good, so try to ask someone else to help you to solve your problem if you can't do it by...

27 Nov 10

To Have A New Baby

Toni @toniganzon (72285) • Philippines 23 Nov 10

My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for the past few months without consulting my doctor. My doctor 2 years ago told me it's okay for me to have another baby because my son is already of age. She said I'm perfectly...

getting pregnant

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mbokratu Don't too focus your mind in having a baby, just relax. Be sure that baby will come because you're not too old to have a baby. My neighbor has a baby when she is 40 years and everything run smoothly. To make you more sure, it's better to come to the doctor...

27 Nov 10

What are the things that keep a man interested with a woman?

cowboyofhell @cowboyofhell (3063) • Philippines 27 Nov 10

I feel that personality is a big factor. If the girl knows what the man need, she more likely would win his heart. Another factor is the ability of the woman to endure the flaws of the man. She has to not complain of the man's...

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mbokratu I thing a man like a woman as a sharing partner. Woman has deeper feeling than a man in facing a problem, and a man can come to her to solve the problem. The woman that gives a full attention to the man, is good also. Don't look for talkative woman, it's...

27 Nov 10

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How often do you hug your siblings?

chuyins123 @chuyins123 (2112) • Philippines 25 Nov 10

I have a sister who have just arrived last night from Vancouver. When she arrived, well she was so excited to see her husband and I really do understand her... So, I just find my place to where her belongings are situated, but she...

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mbokratu I've never hug my sibling. It's unusual in my country to hug brother or sister especially in front of other people. The most thing is only kiss the cheek but it's only between sisters, and kiss hand between sister and brother.

27 Nov 10

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Difference between marriage and really long relationship?

Suggar @Suggar (3606) • Bulgaria 26 Nov 10

Hello friends, i want to ask you about the marriage. Im interested because just now i had one answer in other of my discussions, which answer showed me that some people think that marriage is something much more important than a...

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mbokratu Marriage gives strong power to the relationship itself. Everyone hopes that god bless their marriage. That's why even the cost of marriage is high everyone wants to have it. Of course it has no relationship with the attitude or responsibility of someone. It's...

27 Nov 10

Your family live together but...

chinkai28 @chinkai28 (114) • Philippines 22 Nov 10

I grew up in a family with close ties...I and siblings were not very close but we care for each other. My parents were not really in a good relationship for a long time now but still my father stays in our "home". He was and is a...

family

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mbokratu I know how you feel of your dad. It's hurting of course. But, it's life. We can't ask somebody else to be what we want. Even it's our dad. Talk with heart by heart is better than blaming him all the time. Try to understand whatever his reason to have another...

23 Nov 10

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