mendoza_charissa

@mendoza_charissa (41)

Philippines • Age 39

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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SOS: dry hair with dandruff...

mendoza_charissa @mendoza_charissa (41) • Philippines 31 Jan 09

I've been surfing the net, trying to look for hair care tips for dry hair and dandruff. I found good articles on these two subjects, but the problem is they contradict each other. To care for dry hair, you should shampoo your hair...

advice

hair care

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Screen names

momiecat @momiecat (997) • United States 17 Jan 09

I am curious as to how people choose their screen names. I would think that a lot of time people choose something as an expression for what they are all about. That is how I chose mine. May be, though, some people pick the first...

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mendoza_charissa (hi there momie cat, that cat on your pic looks like my cat ^_^) my screen name is my real name, and i've used it since high school (i'm working now). it's easier to remember, because switching names makes me a little confused (like how switching passwords is...

17 Jan 09

how not to be a snob? or am i? help please..

mendoza_charissa @mendoza_charissa (41) • Philippines 17 Jan 09

hi there mylotters! since i was a kid, people have always had this feedback on me that iwas (and still am) a snob. i'm not aware hwo exactly do i do this, and why i have this effect on people. all i know is that i don't speak if i...

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Are we an "over-medicated" Society?

ClassyCat @ClassyCat (1214) • United States 16 Jan 09

Have you ever noticed how many ads there are on TV for pills these days? there are pills for depression - pills for losing weight - pills for more intimacy - pills for asthma - pills for heart problems - pills...

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mendoza_charissa hello there classy cat ^_^ i agree with, you. not only are we over-medicated, we also live in a society where needs are dictated by ads in media. people from 100 years ago survived without these diet pills, antioxidant pills, and all that, but they turned out...

17 Jan 09

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Positive thinking, do you do this?

jpso138 @jpso138 (7851) • Philippines 16 Jan 09

Many of us have probably heard that positive thinking brings forth a lot of advantages. I always start the day with a positive attitude. I have noticed that it will really help us cope up with whatever we do for the day and the...

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mendoza_charissa i really try to start the day with a positive outlook. but there are a few times when there's some dilemma and i don't have an idea of the outcome, i tend to be more realistic and try to tell myself, this might not come out the way i want it to. if i have that...

17 Jan 09

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Do you prefer the traditional courtship or friends-to-lovers approach??

amazingheart @amazingheart (781) • Philippines 16 Jan 09

Hi everyone!! What you'd rather prefer? Be good friends with a guy/gal first, for some other say its easy for you don't have to pretend to be someone you are not, and friendship gives you more time to ease into the intimacy of a...

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mendoza_charissa hey there amazingheart! ^_^ i kinda like your question...unfortunately, my current relationship started in a way that doesn't fall in any of the 2 categories. my boyfriend and i got together through "reto," if you know what i mean. *wink-wink* well, if things...

17 Jan 09

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to guys: does a black belt intimidate you?

mendoza_charissa @mendoza_charissa (41) • Philippines 17 Jan 09

hi there! i'm just plain curious. there are girls who are really interested in martial arts, and some of them even have earned black belt. if you like a girl and she's a black belter in some martial arts (maybe karate,...

karate

martial arts

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Do you scrape your tongue when brushing your teeth?

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 17 Jan 09

I keep seeing references to this and it is supposed to be a beneficial practice that we should undertake whenever we brush our teeth. There can be a lot of build up of "gunk" on the tongue and in trun, this gunk can generate...

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mendoza_charissa hey there james! have you tried taking a deep breath then holding it for a while, then try to brush/scrape your tongue? this is what i do, and it actually keeps me from gagging. i don't know if it works for other people, so if you have time, please do try, and...

17 Jan 09

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How to make my college students understand English...

mendoza_charissa @mendoza_charissa (41) • Philippines 13 Jan 09

I teach part time in a college, nursing and medical technology students. English is not our primary language, but everything's been taught in English since time memorial. The problem now is that my students fail in exams now...

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mendoza_charissa hello there bebs, i think what you're saying is true. my students just get too complacent on their studies. i'm new in this field of teaching, so i guess i was just getting too idealistic with how i handle my students. but alas, reality is starting to crash...

17 Jan 09

learning a foreign language online

mendoza_charissa @mendoza_charissa (41) • Philippines 17 Jan 09

have you noticed that there are more online learning sites for foreign languages starting to pop out recently? i'm actually interested in these sites. i want to learn a foreign language, but i don't have the time or means to...

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Is texting another woman considered cheating?

hillgirl311 @hillgirl311 (180) • United States 16 Jan 09

My friend told me that she caught her husband texting another woman from his cell phone. 127 texts between them in one month. They even sent pictures of themselves to each other. She confronted her husband with this and he said...

cell phone

texting

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mendoza_charissa yes, yes, and another resounding yes, it's cheating. they're lying about it, they try to hide it, so both of them know that what they're doing is wrong and they don't want your friend to find out about it. if it's not cheating, they shouldn't have lied about...

17 Jan 09

Do you pinch your pimples?

Theresaaiza @Theresaaiza (10487) • Australia 16 Jan 09

It looks annoying especially when the pus is starting to show up. I can't help it. I don't wait for it to disappear on its own. I heard some people end up with craters on their faces because of excessive pinching. Do you pinch...

faces

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mendoza_charissa hello there theresaaiza ^_^ from what i've read in some magazines, they say it's alright to pinch a pimple if it's "ripe", meaning it looks as if it's ready to burst. but you should have a cotton ball and antiseptic ready (neosporin works really well). i think...

17 Jan 09

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How to play cupid ^_^

mendoza_charissa @mendoza_charissa (41) • Philippines 17 Jan 09

Hi guys! i'm gonna need your help on this one, and i think it's kinda fun trying to play cupid for a cousin. so here's the story.. i have a 30-yr-old cousin, and she's single. i think she's really pretty, she's nice, and she's...

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How often do you drink coffee/tea?

janyen @janyen (623) • Netherlands 16 Jan 09

Since I am living in a very cold place, now I realized why people living here even my husband drinks coffee as many as they want to keep them warm. But for me, one cup of coffee in a day, a cup of milk or sometimes the chocolate...

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mendoza_charissa hey there janyen ;p i used to drink black coffee everyday, helps keep my brain up and alert. but now that my work has less demands and has a slower pace, i only drink brisk tea (no milk on my tea),,it has just the right amount of caffeine. honestly my doc told...

17 Jan 09

Would you take the phone call.....?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58675) • Delhi, India 16 Jan 09

When somebody calls us he/she calls as per her/his own convenience, the caller may not be knowing what we are doing at our place. Sometimes, it so happens that my phone call comes, when I am taking my meals either lunch or dinner....

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mendoza_charissa Hello there dpk ^_^ it depends on who's calling. if it's from work, i think i'll take the call. if it's one of my buddies, i think the call can wait a few more minutes. i'll just send a text message saying that i was busy, and he/she can call again if he/she...

16 Jan 09

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Once a cheater.. always a cheater?

HeavenUnaware @HeavenUnaware (1757) • United States 15 Jan 09

I'm curious what your opinions are on this subject. Do you honestly believe that if a person cheats once, that means they will forever be cheaters or do you think that they can see the error of their ways, realize the mistake they...

cheating

love

once a cheater always a cheater

relationships

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mendoza_charissa Hi heaven! I believe in a person's capacity to change. If he or she was once a cheater, this person can be reformed, as I've seen it happen to my father. See, my dad cheated on my mom for eleven years (thank God I have not half-brothers/-sisters)....

16 Jan 09

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Do people in the Philippines prefer British or Americans?

mattwilkie @mattwilkie (278) 15 Jan 09

Im just wondering if it makes any difference where the foreigner comes from. My wife didnt like Americans even before we met. But even on a night out I met a French and Belgium guy that didnt like me and the guy who was with me...

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mendoza_charissa Maybe the only reason that a Filipino might prefer an American over a British guy is because Filipinos are more acquainted with the way Americans speak. But besides that, it doesn't make any difference at all. Filipinos in general are pretty much friendly to...

16 Jan 09