nageswari75

@nageswari75 (675)

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Most rewarding part of being a mommy

boldstar_emem @boldstar_emem (5) • China 5 May 10

yesterday when i just finished my shower getting ready for work getting my hair done i noticed my four year-old son staring at me. Curious of why he was staring at me i asked him what the problem He smiled at me and said "ma i...

thoughtful baby

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nageswari75 That was really sweet of your sond to say that.But yes,children do that always.I have heard accounts of mums being praised by their children all the time.I think that because the first example of woman for a child is the mother,they are always besotted with...

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which life is happy

kirthy @kirthy (383) • India 30 Apr 10

some people are getting happy in their life before marriage. some others get after marriage. how you are? what is your opinion about this?

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nageswari75 Happiness,for me,is a relative term.I can never say that I was truely unhappy anytime in my life.Looking at the problem times in my life now,I feel that they were minor things which were there to broaden my outlook on life and improve my attotudes towards...

30 Apr 10

What to tell /advice a friend

setsuna26 @setsuna26 (2751) • Philippines 29 Apr 10

Just yesterday a friend came to our place and wants to talk to me, i let him in and ask him whats wrong, he said hes confused and dont know what to do, he told me that he found out that hes just adopted, meaning all of his 23...

adopted friend

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nageswari75 I am sorry that your friend is sad to find out that he is adopted.As much as I don't know what it means to find out that the parents who have raised you all your life, are not your biological parents,I also know how much any parent loves their child because it...

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Would you let a friend do this?

zenki08 @zenki08 (700) • Philippines 29 Apr 10

I have a friend who asked me if he could use my credit card to buy something. During the first billing date he was able to pay me but after that no more. He keeps on giving me different alibi and until now no payment from him yet....

debt

getting screwed

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nageswari75 I would bever give my credit card again to anyone who failed to pay once.For me,friendship is friendship but I like to clear up money matters quickly as it is the basis of many a soured frienships.I used to be very docile and used to give away my things if my...

30 Apr 10

I'm A Student Again!

Rosie @rosie230 (1696) 26 Apr 10

Being a stay at home Mum, can really grate on you sometimes, so I decided that the time had come for me to find something to do, whilst staying at home that could help me in the future. So I enrolled in a writing course, you get...

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nageswari75 wow,good that you have become a student again.I wonder when i will be able to go back to studies.our circumstances have forced us to move in with the in-laws,so cant think of studies now as my second one is also very young.I am planning to start on a course...

26 Apr 10

Where do you keep your recipies?

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 26 Apr 10

Where do you like to keep your prized recipies that you make all the time or are a hit in your household? I have many of them on my pc in a doc file. But I always worry that what if one day my pc crashes. Though I have many...

cooking

recipes

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nageswari75 I used to write mine down in a diary that my dad had given me.But unfortunately I lost it in transit when I was travelling on an international flight.since then,I have saved my fave recipes in the online recipe box or folder the website provides.I also have...

26 Apr 10

Have You Wondered Why No Matter How Good You Are, Bad Things Still Happen?

Opal26 @Opal26 (17679) • United States 25 Apr 10

I know that this might sound self-centered and a bit on the ridiculous side, but it's a question a need to ask! I try to be the best me that I can be! I know we have no control of our destiny and things happen that we just have...

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nageswari75 I used to ask that to myself all that time!Since we moved in with my in-laws due to some circumstances,I keep thionking,why me?I try my best to adjust here,and not say anything even if something is not to my liking as I don't want to create a scene.But nobody...

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the simplest way to make chocolate cakes?

amelly @amelly (1554) • Malaysia 25 Apr 10

i've been a big fan of chocolate cake and i started to make them since i was 12.i wantes to know whether u guys have a simple but totally delicious recipe of chocolate cake...i did search on9 but mostly they are way to hard to...

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nageswari75 The easiest chocolate cake is the eggless chocolate cake also called wacky cake.It is a one bowl cake.you can even mix it right in the baking pan.that's how easy it goes.also called dump cake cos you just dump all teh ingredients together and mix it well,then...

26 Apr 10

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What do you prefer most, to be well liked or respected?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 25 Apr 10

Their are differences between the saying when you are being well liked or respected. You are well like when people around you accept you for what you are and for being respected mean you deserve it because of your position in the...

boss or firends

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nageswari75 If you speak of respect in professional life,I would like being respected ,as then tehre is a good chance of things being done properly and you hold the authority so you will be listened to, and things will go on smoothly in an organisation.But then...

26 Apr 10

When you're depressed what do you do?

ShadowWalker @ShadowWalker (969) • United States 24 Apr 10

When you are depressed do you talk to friends or family about it? Do you have a special friend or family member who will be there for you? Or do you hide it from everybody? Do you pretend like everything is fine when it's not? I...

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nageswari75 I think you definitely need some help here.please donot be ashamed of seeking help.I suffered post natal depression and realised t only when I came out of it.I never thought that I will be happy again after my first one was born.i used to cry too,always regret...

24 Apr 10

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creativity

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 24 Apr 10

creativity refers to the ability to produce something new and useful, both in the form of ideas or conceptual ideas, or works or tangible products that are relatively different from what already exists. some people believe that...

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nageswari75 I think creativity is a gift.But there is absolutely no link between intelligence,education and creativity.I know of people who paint so well but they have hardly passed their fifth grade in school.I believe that when god gives one a handicap,then he also...

24 Apr 10

student life

prathana149 @prathana149 (1) 24 Apr 10

how do you find student life??boring or fun??

student

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nageswari75 I did find it boring when I was in school,but that was because I had to study subjects that did not interest me along with those that I liked.Later on,when I did specialiseation studies,I found it very interesting.Now,it has been a long time since I have been...

24 Apr 10

age

beesm17 @beesm17 (107) • United States 21 Apr 10

how old were you when you found out you were preg? was it a shock? I was 22 with the 1st and 23 with the second and both were a surprise but a great one.:)

age

baby

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nageswari75 I was 27 when I got preg with my first one and 33 with my second one.It was not a surpise though I would have loved it(I just love surprises!).But both my kids were properly planned.With the first,I got preg within two months of trying,but with the second,it...

21 Apr 10

Do you know foods that can gain weight?

acey76 @acey76 (1276) • Philippines 21 Apr 10

My friend ask me how do to gain weight, cause i have a chubby body, I said to her that it depends on your metabolism, she's so skinny and I have no idea what food she will eat I just advised her to eat as much as she wanted to..Do...

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nageswari75 As kalav said,bananas are said to help gain weight.They are full of carbohydrates,so good for weight gain.but the sensible thing is to not gain just weight.Your friend should try to eat healthy food overall so that she gains weight steadily.gaining weight by...

21 Apr 10

teething

kathysmi @kathysmi (73) • United States 21 Apr 10

For all of you Moms out there, my 4 month old has begun to teethe already (at 3 months old) What do you think is the best way to help my lil one through this. I don't use orajel, but the Hylands teething tablets really seem to...

baby

teething

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nageswari75 I have resorted to giving my baby rusks for calming his itching gums.He seems to like it as well.teethers are a good idea.put them in the fridge and when cold,give it to your baby.also,try to keep him busy with play,as the other poster said.This I found out...

21 Apr 10

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What is your favorite Comfort food to prepare when you are feeling Blue?

chulce @chulce (1537) • United States 21 Apr 10

When I'm feeling blue, I seem to always turn to food for a little additional comfort. The first thing I think of is a nice big bowl of mashed potatoes with loads of gravy. I don't know why, but, it sure seems to help. So I will...

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nageswari75 My comfort food is chocolate or anything made with chocolate.I have always loved cakes,not only eating but baking them.I love to make myself a nice cake when I feel low.Chocolate is said to impart a feel-good factor to anyone who eats it.I learned this fairly...

21 Apr 10

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Years of misinterpretation corrected

Wizzywig @Wizzywig (7847) 21 Apr 10

When I was 6 my gran died & my dad said I shouldn't cry in front of my mum because it would upset her. So, I didnt. About 6 weeks later, my cat got knocked down by a car and was killed instantly. I cried buckets because that gave...

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nageswari75 I have personally never had to face the kind of misunderstanding you have had to face.But I came close to it.we (me and my siblings never discussed much about my family when we were kids, and I was always a kind of reclulse,into books all the time.but now,as...

21 Apr 10

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Should one keep suffering when a relationship has gone sour ?

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 2 Jan 08

My best friend has a very bad marriage. He is a very soft spoken man with infinite kindness. However he landed into a marriage with a bullying wife. He is suffering like hell, but all these years he carried on for the sake of his...

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nageswari75 I think it is up to your friend who really has to decide what he wants to do.If the children are grown up enough to take care of themselves,have got jobs,good education etc, and basically not have to depend on parents,then ther eis no reason for your friend...

2 Jan 08

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The advantages and disadvantages of having internet at home.

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 1 Jan 08

Advantages: 1. i can log on anytime i want, even at midnight or at dawn when the sun hasn't risen up and all the people are still sleeping soundly dancing in dreamland. ^__^;; 2. i can bring my meals or any food in front of...

surfing the net

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nageswari75 Well, the pros: 1.I can look up any information I want as things do pop up in my mind when I am cooking etc. 2.I find loads of information which is so accessible.the internet is really a boon for those looking for information. 3.I log on when I am...

2 Jan 08

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