optimist3431

@optimist3431 (7)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How to deal with the relationship between parent and us?

optimist3431 @optimist3431 (7) • China 24 Jul 10

I'm very unhappy these days.I live with my parents in law, we two generations have so many different attitude of life, that led to many unnessary contradictions.My husband is always on business trip,we communicate a little. How...

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optimist3431 In fact, the house we live is my own, they just don't want to live with us,but they are willing to take care of my 4 years-old son,if they could not see him over 3 days, they will miss him so much.They are unable to understand why I always late to sleep and...

24 Jul 10

How to deal with the relationship between parent and us?

optimist3431 @optimist3431 (7) • China 24 Jul 10

I'm very unhappy these days.I live with my parents in law, we two generations have so many different attitude of life, that led to many unnessary contradictions.My husband is always on business trip,we communicate a little. How...

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optimist3431 "Ask them to respect your feelings as you respect theirs",Hatley, you talked a lot of good sense, In fact, I just do as you said,but my parent couldn't act as your saying.I think I should take time to communicate with them. And living close by is a good way to...

24 Jul 10

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How to deal with the relationship between parent and us?

optimist3431 @optimist3431 (7) • China 24 Jul 10

I'm very unhappy these days.I live with my parents in law, we two generations have so many different attitude of life, that led to many unnessary contradictions.My husband is always on business trip,we communicate a little. How...

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What is the worst social problem you have in your country?

hushi22 @hushi22 (4928) 19 Jul 10

As countrymen, we are obliged to be a good citizen. But nowadays, we see a lot of problems and struggles from people. THere is also what we call a social pollution. As keen observant, what do you think is the worst social...

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optimist3431 In my country, I think the most social problem is housing problem for our youth. Take my city I lives in for example. An average apartment about 100 squremeters may cost CNY1.5 million, about US$220 thousand.But most people just earn a little compared with the...

22 Jul 10

i hate late night working

sakthimaharai @sakthimaharai (154) • India 21 Jul 10

Daily i have seen most people who are working in late night in offices.I really hate to work after 7 P.M in office.I think most people are working in night because they are not utilizing the timing in day times.So they make...

working late night

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optimist3431 hello, anjo12 I'm agree with you absolutely.My problem is very similar to yours.Now i had a serious stomach-ache.But that is too late for regrets, health is gone for ever, now I must consier whether to change a soft job, then no longer do I have to work into...

22 Jul 10

Travel Blues

sonz_doreen @sonz_doreen (193) • United Arab Emirates 10 Jul 09

I've been to some parts of Europe and across the continent to USA..Now I'm looking to go for a weeks vacation to Asia. More on the South East side. Can anybody suggest where I should head, China, Nepal, Bhutan, Vietnam,...

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optimist3431 China of course i suggest.

10 Jul 09

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