pixielust

@pixielust (42)

United States • Age 45

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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yesterday my boyfriends said to me...its over..what should i do...

Angelinka @Angelinka (1410) • Italy 9 Feb 07

well,3 years we live togther..hes got very strong character and personality....yesterday we went out...i was sad,i didnt wanted to go out...he was angree with me and said that i am sad all the time everyday...maybe its...

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pixielust I'm not going to be hard on you. It sounds like you were very naive in the relationship and now he is showing his true colors (which is NOT good). Dear, you sound like a very sweet young woman (I don't know how old you are) but remember, you are a woman. Men...

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Being too nice for your own good?

Leca @lecanis (16647) • Murfreesboro, Tennessee 9 Feb 07

Have you ever felt that you're just too nice for your own good? That you really need to learn to be a little mean or you're just never going to make it in life? I felt that way today. My coworker said she absolutely cannot work...

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pixielust I do not have this problem. In fact, I can be a little too blunt. But my boyfriend's sister (whom I adore by the way) kind of does. She has this guy who was her boyfriend who she let walk all over her, was rude to her and very controlling. It made me mad that...

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Insomnia .. What works best for you?

emilieespino @emilieespino (963) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

Sometimes we cannot avoid not being able to sleep for various reasons or for reasons we cannot fathom. In my case if I take coffee in the afternoon or evening, then I have it. I also get insomnia when I am bothered by a problem or...

insomnia

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pixielust I know I get insomnia a lot. I tend to stay up late surfing the internet (or like now, surfing myLot, which is like crack to me right now). Truthfully I don't do anything because there's not much I can do. Of course it could be because I'm bipolar and when...

10 Feb 07

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Why do we Love the Dead?

chaime @chaime (1152) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

Why is it that when people die, not only famous people,even ordinary everyday people, others seem to deem it necessary to say something good about the person even if he is "not that good" I mean, when Saddam was executed, many...

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pixielust I'm thinking it has more to do with, at least with me, that the person who has passed on cannot defend themselves in this realm. I also think it's human nature to try and make sense of death, and so really try to make someone out to be better than they really...

10 Feb 07

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Do you throw crockery or anything else....?

Evacuee @Evacuee (1147) 9 Feb 07

This was prompted by a previous discussion with one of my Mylot friends....!! Do you ladies throw crockery or anything else at your partner when you have a serious argument? I say 'ladies' because unfortunately I think men...

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pixielust No, I haven't. Though people often joke about things like this...if it happens truly, that's abuse no matter how you look at it. There are men being abused by women physically. It probably happens more than it is thought of because it is *much* less likely to...

10 Feb 07

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People Brutally Killing and Eating Stray Dogs

cuddleme01 @cuddleme01 (2725) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

I just saw on tv this evening (Philippine time) stray dogs being brutally killed and eaten by some people. They mercilessly kill these man’s best friends by hitting them on the head with hard wood or dig a hole in their necks...

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pixielust I know this sounds really, really evil...but what do we do here in the United States (and other so called first world countries). We think dogs and cats are "too cute" and baby kittens and puppies are "oh so sweeet" so we breed our pets, people will get...

9 Feb 07

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Tell me about your kids' names...

chaygylmommy @chaygylmommy (2470) • United States 9 Feb 07

I have this thing with names and where they come from and how they were picked. I love all kinds of names. I absolutely LOVE old fashioned names and very unusual names. My son's name is CHAYTON. It is from the Sioux Indian...

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pixielust I named my daughter Jadi. My name is Jami, my mother's name is Jodi. I combined the two to make "Jadi". Her middle name is Lynn, which is my Aunt Cathi's middle name. Jadi also sounds like my first two initials (J.D.) so her name had a real family...

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For other mothers (What can I do?)

abgonzales @abgonzales (45) • United States 9 Feb 07

Okay I'm a new mother. Well not that new now, my daughter is 5 months now, but she is my only kid so I'm still new to the parenting thing. Anyways my husband works all time and is hardly home so it's just me and my daughter....

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pixielust What I did when my daughter got fussy, AND she was dry, fed and warm, was I would just sit her in her crib, give her her binky, and walk away. It's much better, I believe, to remove yourself and calm yourself down than to allow yourself to remain in a...

9 Feb 07

I hate you!!

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 9 Feb 07

have your young children ever said i hate you when they get mad at you. how do you react and what do you say to them? my friend called me crying once caue her 4 year old said it to her when she was being punished. my friend called...

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pixielust I don't believe children really know what they're saying when they say "I hate you". I believe the best reaction to that is no reaction. If it gets a reaction, positive or negative, it tends to reinforce the behavior. My child has let off with a cuss word...

9 Feb 07

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cutting

PepperJane @PepperJane (50) • United States 7 Feb 07

Do you cut yourself? Why? Do you really feel better afterwards?

cutting

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pixielust I used to cut, but I don't anymore. I've been 2 years now SI free. And it's not even that I'm not tempted to. I do have to fight it still, some days more than others. I have borderline personality disorder. Many people think "oh well you don't cut anymore...

9 Feb 07

Do you get along with your mother in law?

mstay4 @mstay4 (69) • United States 9 Feb 07

I was just wondering how many women get along with their mother in laws? You always hear the horror stories so I was wondering what kind of experiences you have had with her good or bad? Does she interfere in your relationship?...

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pixielust My first mother in law is really awesome, and sweet, and I still love her to this day. I call her every other day to just talk. She's an awesome person. My soon to be future mother in law...well, to be kind I'll say I was lucky the first time around....

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Should homosexuality be allowed in the society?

zhar00001 @zhar00001 (12) • United States 8 Feb 07

From my own point of view, homosexuality is just a wicked preverted thing that a man could think of. Some people may say, "well, i was born that way"... I think that's not right. Since myself I am christian, and it does say in the...

gay

homosexuality

lesbian

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pixielust If, as you say, there should be laws prohibiting homosexuality (and at one time, there were)...what makes you think that those laws would be followed? There have been gay people since the beginning of time. Native Americans, Greeks, it tends to transcend...

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What is your favorite pet? And is your gallery dedicated to that Pet?

wicked1977 @wicked1977 (21) • United States 9 Feb 07

My favorite pet is my Ogrin! but my gallery is not dedicated to her. But my Dream pet is a Draik and/or Krawk! I want them all to be Darigan once I get them@ I better start saving lol!

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pixielust My favorite neopet is the Aisha. I have a side account gallery with all Aishas and that gallery dedicated to the Aisha. I think I like aishas because I like cats (and the Alien Aisha is my dream pet, and I'm still waiting for a Fountain Faerie Quest) I've been...

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How To Make Money Online With Your Blackberry

Emmanuel Akpan @emmalexonline (6) • Nigeria 25 Jun 13

Blackberry, one of the smartphones launched as a business solution has to an extent being abused by most users as they have failed to use the device true to the original aim why it was launched. Most users think “PINGING” is all...

pixielust Blackberry, one of the smartphones launched as a business solution has to an extent being abused by most users as they have failed to use the device true to the original aim why it was launched. Most users think “PINGING” is all the device has got to offer and...

25 Jun 13

Reminder: Don't criticize people's spelling or grammar

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 13 Jul 07

This is a reminder, which I am sure most mylotters know. IT is a violation to start a topic that ridicules or finds fault with peoples spelling or grammar. Here is mylot's exact wording: under the don'ts: Dont: "Post...

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pixielust This is a reminder, which I am sure most mylotters know. IT is a violation to start a topic that ridicules or finds fault with peoples spelling or grammar. Here is mylot's exact wording: under the don'ts: Dont: "Post discussions, responses or...

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How to get over beeing abused?

Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 29 Dec 06

I admit that I am mostly a happy camper these days and that there is really nothing wrong with my life, but every once in a while I end up in that DARK spot where noone actually can reach me. My life has been a rollercoaster....

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pixielust I understand what you've been through. I can't say I know how you feel because nobody does, but you yourself. But I have been abused, and so have a lot of other people. Not everyone has the courage to talk about it, so I think that is a great first step....

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