My friend fall in love with 2 guy

Australia
April 20, 2007 8:27am CST
My friend got a big big problem. she fall in love with 2 man and now she can't choose which one is the best for her. First time when she went out to date with 2 man in the same time ( both are not know each other), i already told her that she must choose one of them, but she didn't want. She said that how if i choose the wrong person. After 2 months both of them are ask her to make a serious relationship, my friend is so confused and she afraid that both are know each other. I already told her to choose but both are nice and kind with her What should she do? Have you ever been in this situation?
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6 responses
@qiling (1)
• China
20 Apr 07
It's really a serious problem!But maybe both of them are not your friend's true love! I still believe this perspective : the person I love to me is the whole world !So your friend is still hesitating ,maybe just because they are both so kind to her,and your friend enjoy the feeling very much .Just because of this !If I were your friend, I think I would calm down,and do not make the choice soon! Maybe as the time pass by,one of them will not persist anymore!
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• Australia
21 Apr 07
Maybe she just don't want that feeling. Thank you for your advice.
• Philippines
11 May 07
I agree with qiling. I think that your friend is not really in love with any of them. Love is not selfish, no offense intended.. If you love a certain person, there is a certain trait that person has that makes you love him. Everyone is unique and a person's attitude or personality is not duplicated. She must weigh things out and see who is the best person that she can relate to or who is the person that she can imagine life with. Hope this helps.
@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
In the end she would have to choose only one. and that is the best one. Or she may face losing both if she could not make any choice sooner or later. We were created to love only one loving two would be too much. There must be one that is far more greater than the other. She may buy some time to think it through. But then one must prevail over the other no matter what.
• Australia
21 Apr 07
I will told her about that, thank you for your advice, i hope she will understand and can make a choice as soon as posible
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Well its a serious thing to get in to...your friend should fix it....shes going to regret that thing....:) :(
• Australia
21 Apr 07
Thank you for your responses.
@abireyes (57)
• Hong Kong
11 May 07
yes, i had the same experience myself. well of course you can never have two guys in your life, you have to choose either one of them. she have to check one of them who's very sincere, who have a good personality.. and she have to feel that whenever she feels comfortable with him and make's her happy ever single day..that's him! and get to know them well she needs your opinion too. :)
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@cheenlly (3485)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Hi friend, only thing i could say to your friend is she should not based her choices on being kind or being nice of the man because surely she will have hard time to choose between the two because both have those qualities. She should know the difference between love and like. Like is when you know the best side of someone and like them and i think thats what she feel from both. She like both of them and that is not true love. Love is when you know the worst side that someone could ever have and you still love that person with everything you have in your heart. The best thing and the right thing to do is she choose whats in her heart. the one that she cant live without. Hope it helps! Godbless you!
• China
11 May 07
your friend is a beautiful girl,she can be loved by two people.