How Do you Deal with an Arrogant, Irritating ROOM partner,,..???
April 21, 2007 8:54pm CST
I stay in apartment and i have got so annoying room partner that i have to go on fighting each and every day. She doesn't care wether i have exams or not. Whenever I stay down to read she start to play music and i have to fight and ususally she comes home late and i have to wait her till she doesn't coem and starts banging door. God i hate her so..but i just don't know hoe to deal with this pproblem. Many times i have already told her to move out but she doen't.
22 Apr 07
Talk to her. Let her know her responsibilities as a room partner. Impose that she should bring her keys. Do not open the door no matter how loud she abngs it since she has the obligation to bring her keys with her. You don't have to give in to her whims especially with her attitude like she's the owner of the house.. hhahaha! If she does not change, then the authority in the apartment must impose rules. Anyone who cannot abide with the rules must move out. In consideration to other tenants in the apartment, she has to change! If she doesnt then that only means she is not ready to live with other people. Tell her to move back to her mom's underwear. Hahahaha! She might still need her cradle. Some of the house rules that can be imposed are: 1. curfew - which is not necessarily curfew. Its just that you will only open the door for her until a particular time. beyond that, you will not open the door anymore no matter how loud she bangs so she must develop the habit of bringing the keys with her. 2. A noise curfew - loud sound systems must be prohibited after a particular time. (If it doesnt work, befriend the other tenants in the house and plan a noise barage during her sleep. harharhar) If you can do this, try not to let her in for a couple of days. let her sleep on the streets! harharrr! she has to learn her lessons. If she can't be good, you won't let her in. If she repeats it again, throw her stuff outdoor when she's not home then lock the doors. Harharrharr! (im getting naughtier)
22 Apr 07
If she does not listen to you, then tell your concerns to your landlady. Your landlady has the authority to impose rules and regulations which helps maintain a good atmosphere at the boarding house. Talk to your roommate too, about her responsibilities as a roommate. Why does she have to bang the door when she gets home late at night? doesnt she have her keys with her? Its one of her basic responsibilities, not only to you but to all of the boarders who might get disturbed when she bangs the door. She is so inconsiderate. How old is she? Try not to open the door for her no matter how loud she bangs it. If everyone gets troubled then say that you get really pissed off because she's been doing the same inconsiderate act always. Make your roommate know and feel that she is wrong and that you have no obligation to give in to her whims, irresponsibility and being inconsiderate. Do not let her abuse you too. you have the right to complain and do what you want as long as you are on the right side. If your landlady/landlord does not do anything after you told her your troubles with your roommate, then i guess its time that you find a better place. Living like that is hell especially if you're a student. In my country, we always choose to live with someone we know (like relatives or family or friends) -someone we're comfortable with. This kind of setting predisposes mutual respect, consideration and a homely atmosphere. If we live with peers, we post houserules and those who cannot abide must have the face to move out than cause trouble with the people close to her. If you cannot stand your roommate and she doesnt want to move out, then you better find another place to stay (if the place is not your dominion). But if it is, kick her out! hahaha!