How to stop crying?

@Abbyey (760)
Philippines
April 21, 2007 10:58pm CST
When your heart feels betrayed by your own family's hypocracy and you know what a BIG LIAR they are... how do you stop yourself from crying over and over again because you realize you have lived a BIG LIE with them for the pass 5 years. They smile and laugh along... then you realize they were all PRETENDING everything and that they were having this BLACK BOOK listing all the BAD things they observe and finally when the MOMENT comes they just SHOUTED everything out... without any sign that they were being hypocrites... You suddenly realize all was FAKE gestures and FAKE kindness, all were LIES... To think that they announce to the world their so called CHRISTIANITY and FAITH yet in the way they just acted you see the LIES and HYPOCRACY in them. I realize i cannot go to the same church with them knowing those things. From that day on I could not really believe them because they showed me all the Hypocracy for the pass 5 years. I would be rather attend in a church that i know NO ONE and just listen to the message.
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5 responses
• Canada
22 Apr 07
It sounds like you are having a hard time with the lies of your family but the truth is that crying is a healthy way of releases the feelings you have inside and this will make you feel much better then if you kept it all inside to build up . Eventually with time you will feel better and not feel the need to cry all the time and will be able to move forward . Just remember that you have the right to cry as you were hurt and when we are hurt we need to be able to let out the pain we feel inside and this is how we do it . I hope things work out better for you as it sounds like your family has did something to hurt you really bad and once you feel better you will find out what it is you want to do to get over this . Best of luck :)
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@Abbyey (760)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
Thank you, it was truly hearbreaking. Before i thought of what a great family i have. But now i realize i was wrong, i realize that all was a LIE and nothing was true.
@Dumpertaker (1188)
23 Apr 07
I will not say I know how you feel, because everyone is different and I am not you...but I know the kind of thing you are going through and wish there was something I could do for you. Some of my family are like that too, and I basically shun them, if they feel they have to do something like that to me then they do not deserve to know me and what I am doing. It does make me feel down, and I wish I could physically cry (maybe it would make me feel better) but I have not been able to do so for about 19+ years.,,maybe crying would make me feel better.
• India
22 Apr 07
I see you r going thru a hard time and my heart is with you.If its a temporary sorrow then cry ur heart out its a much better way of relaxing than to keep it inside and if u have to live with it then i advice u indulge urself in sumthing u love to do so it gets u distrcted...cheers to life dear and ask me if u need any help we are all ur friends here
• India
22 Apr 07
spend some time with positive friends and have a chat with them for some while you can dirvert your cry.
@dozenbiz (88)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
You'd made the right solution by attending a church meeting that no one knows you. Remember the most weighted most on the judgment are your good deeds. I knew GOD is so generous and someday they will be enlightened that what they were doing was never been good. If you want to stop crying don't think of the past and even your future, just think of the NOW. Think what you can do best today for humanity. If they were my relatives, then I will tell them that they have no authority to destroy the good feelings of others. Change your dispositions in life. Never allow them to hurt you by telling them that what they did to you is not good and that they are not setting good examples and they should do that as CHRISTIANS. If you cry for the first time then that is acceptable but the second time or third time you have to think already. There is something wrong in between. I'm pretty sure you are always right in your feelings and your greatest rights is to live very happy in this worldly frame that animals sometimes influence humans. NOW is the right timing that they should know what you want and that is NOT TO CRY ALL THE TIME.