Will you give up or hang on when you are in the hard time??

@easy888 (10405)
Australia
April 22, 2007 7:12am CST
'Everyone will have hard time in their life, the important thing is how you are going to deal with the problem and get over it,sometimes, some people say human being is tiny, they may have to give up in some situations.' What do you think?? Have you ever had any hard time? Did you get over it finally?How did you persevere and solve the problem??Or did you give up? Why? Do you believe if you keep thinking positively,you can win over the nature?I always think we have to hang on no matter what happen, when the hard time passed,we will see the sun shining again. My motto is 'never give up',just like ROCKY in the movie. Work hard,folks
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@mgupta (71)
• India
22 Apr 07
Say 'I will try' before you say 'I can't'. Never Give Up
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
True
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
22 Apr 07
no matter how hard life gets, never give up, always hold your head high and keep on going. You will build character and become a strong person who can accept and deal with whatever life brings, good and bad.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
I agree with you 100%.Thank you for reply.
@akinad (448)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
i don't easily give up on challenges and problems..but when i know something is never really gonna work out even if i'd really really tried hard..then that's the only time i give up..i just know when to stop trying..but atleast i've tried..i just let destiny take it's own course...that's just how life is..because i believe things happen for a reason..and those hard times are only tests of faith...
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
True, you will not regret if you try hard even you fail to do something, you will regret if you do not even try hard and give up at the beginning.
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• Singapore
22 Apr 07
This is a tough question and it varies. I know this is not the most idea but I do both. It's hard to talk in general term really. :P
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
May ne you are right,it depends on different situations, but generally I would hang on till the end.
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@maryannemax (12172)
• Sweden
22 Apr 07
yup. it surely will vary on situations. you'll feel when it's still worth to hold on or it's better to give up.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
:)
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@qoo_rie (428)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 07
I think get over it is the best solution. but i never done that. when i had a hard time i try to forget... looks like i'm running from myself, i don't have that much courage to standing in one point. well if i can't solve the problem, i just forget it, n try the other way, somehow i believe there is another easy way for me that i could handle it. :)
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
True, there mus be many ways to tackle with the problem ,try to find more ways to work that out and it will be fine.
@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Thats a good attitude. And thats how I believe we should think. Ive had many situtions in my life where I thought I would never see light again. But I did with alot of hard work and I shed alot of tears. I always try to stay positive no matter how hard life is. And always keep a smile on your face.LOL
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
:) true, always think in a positive way and have a smile on your face,you will have a happier life.
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@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
22 Apr 07
Sometimes life is very hard, and no matter how hard you work at it you cannot fix things. Sometimes you just have to wait it out. Nothing lasts forever - not even problems. When you hit rock bottomn it can only get better. but when you are in a pitch black hole you cannot think about anything else nut to hold on.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
22 Apr 07
True ,may be time is the best way to help you to get over the hard moment ,just be patient and things will be getting better and better when times go by.
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• Philippines
22 Apr 07
I had lots of hard times!!!! according to eric clapton "Time can bring you down, Time can bend your knees, Time can break a heart and have you begging please.... begging please...." here in the Philippines, we have a saying "when you fall down, stand up!" it is a must.... lately, the only thing that makes me weak is LOVE..... I fell in love with a woman and the saddest part of it is I didn't get a love from her..... I fell down..... because I fell in love..... STAND UP! and it is a must. cry if you need to because it is a release, pray, so that HE will know your needs and give you the answers "YES", "NO", "NOT NOW", that's how HE answers. having a strong faith can give a person a balance in life and a strength like Rocky Balboa to live life. we need to be brave..... If you fall, Go Back UP! it is a must. :) Award winning topic!!!!
• Portugal
22 Apr 07
hang up is my choice.. becz i wont leave any thing till the ends so for every hard time i come across.. i love those situations...
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@KissThis (3006)
• United States
21 May 07
I try to work out all of my problems. I am not ne who will give up easily. But I do admit that there have been a couple of times that I have given up. I believe that there are some situations that are just out of our control and that we must except that we can't always have things they way that we want them.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
30 May 07
True,but giving up should be out last resort. In other situation ,we should try hard and control the situation.
@Trambak (161)
• India
4 May 07
Giving up is thwe sign of the weak hearted.If life would have been a smooth sailing through out then it would have been boring.taking rite decisions at the rite time,weathering the storm is what makes life an interesting affair.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
21 May 07
Exactly,life will be more interesting with up and down and we have to try hard to get over the bad moment so that we can enjoy in the good time.
@mamasan34 (6521)
• United States
4 May 07
I think that in my situation, I don't ever give up on my problems. Sometimes they have to be put on the back burner for awhile to step back and get some perspective but I don't give up. I have had many hard times in my life and I have always persevered through it all. I think positive, like this is only a temporary setback, next payday will be better! You have to think positive or else you won't be able to pull yourself out of the hard times. I love the Rocky movies, they are very inspiring!
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
21 May 07
True,we have to persevere in the hard times and good time will come soon.
• Kuwait
28 Apr 07
I would probably hang on ang find some good solution on the situation.giving up is not a solution and not a good act of professional educated and sensible person.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
4 May 07
we should work hard no matter we are well educated or not,isn't it?
@denden (803)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
As of now,i am still young and i dont have any major problems for now or hard time.My only hard time i remember is that i overspend my allowance and in two weeks i dont have any extra money its very hard for me and its a lesson for me.I see thing as positive and after i overcome that situation i dont overspend my alowance i do save now and i do carefully budget my money.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
29 Apr 07
Good luck to you.but alwasy be prepared for the hard time to come so that you know what to do at that time.
@whyaskq (7532)
• Singapore
23 Apr 07
In event of hard times, I do not just persevere to solve the problem. I happen to be a pressure cooker. I do not believe in keep thinking positively to win over nature. Just thinking alone is no use. It is action that matters. Hanging on to a problem is not my style. I just want to get the problem over and fast.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
24 Apr 07
Everyone will have their own ways to tackle with problems, as long as you feel comfotable with it ,it will be ok
@Chrqsh (71)
• China
23 Apr 07
Sometimes you will find that even if you try and try again, but can not change anything. My motto is: Let it be.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
:)
• India
23 Apr 07
no way one should give up one's life as it is so precious not only to you but your beloved one's. your moto of life is very good. there are always good time and bad time but face it with good attitude and rest leave to god.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
:)
@kochmy (94)
• Malaysia
23 Apr 07
There is always has the solution for the problem that you face.It is all depends on whether you can accept it and move on. When dealing with problem,sometimes it is better to get someone to talk to.I always do that.From there you will know what is going on and decide what to do. Of course not all the people will agree with this and they might have their own way to solve it.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
True, every people will have different choices even to the same thing.
@ellie26 (4128)
• Malaysia
23 Apr 07
When I had hard time, I usually deal with the problem(s). I will look for every possible ways to solve my problems. And, to my amazement, with a lot of patient and determination, I managed to overcome it (most of the time). It is the determination that gets anyone to a higher level. Not being afraid of failure is always good and also it will push you to your limit. And at the end of the day, you only have yourself to be proud of!
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
True, it may be good if we can solve the problem,but even we cannot do it, we try hard and we will gain something and we will be better next time.
• China
23 Apr 07
I'll give up for anything.Even the problem is a real problem and it's very hard to solve,i'll try my best to overcome it,or i'll ask for help from my friends.But i'll never give up.It's a shame to do that.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 Apr 07
True, if you work alone, it may be too hard to solve the problem, but luckily you will have your friends to share with you and help you to get over the hard time.