once a cheater always a cheater?

Canada
April 22, 2007 12:39pm CST
do you think this statement is true. have you ever cheated on someone, if so did you cheat on everyone you were with or just one person? i have to admit, for me it's once a cheater always a cheater. i've cheated on everyone i was with. i don't know why, maybe it's because i don't really love them. so i'm hoping if i truly love someone i won't do it again.
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@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
22 Apr 07
yes always a cheater my motto is if they will cheat once they will do it again. my first husband he cheated on me with 4 different woman and one I caught in bed with and he sat there and said he did do anything. and my second husband he cheated on me twice before I throw him out. cheating is wrong and if you are with someone then you should not do it, if you want to cheat then stay single.
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• Canada
22 Apr 07
that's why i'm single now and have been for almost 4 years. i love being single and being able to do what i want when i want. i'm really not good at relationships.
• United States
22 Apr 07
I am not a true believer in this. I was at one point in life. I think for the honesty you have. Your going to be a good person to your true love. I also agree that people tend to cheat for this very reason. So many people think they have true love and don't. I think a person can be faithful to another. They have to meet the person who makes them 100% complete.
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• Canada
22 Apr 07
i think i'm always trying to find a way out becuase i do end up telling the person what i'm doing and even one guy i used to tell him before something happened with someone else. i knew i wasn't really happy with him so i was pushing him away.
@sizzle3000 (3040)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Everyone makes mistakes it is what we learn from those mistakes that is important. If you can cheat on these guys then no they were not the right guys for you. I never wanted a so called boyfriend when I was younger. I thought that if I gave a guy the boyfriend title he would try to own me and I like to run a round. Then I met my husband and I just wanted to be with him and the others just did not seem to be important any more. My husband let me do what I wanted with in reason and I don't want to be with any other guy but him.
@lightningMD (5932)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I have never cheated on my husband or any of my prior significant others. My first husband was a cheat and hurt so bad that I could never do that to someone else. I do think that once a cheater always a cheater. For some reason they just dont seem to think it is that wrong.
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@lida44 (223)
• Finland
22 Apr 07
I think there is exceptions even in Great World of Cheaters. I think sometimes you can see who is professioanl cheater or who just made mistake. I still beleive that people who made mistake once not neccesary make it twice. In your case if you constantely cheated before no true love, my friend, will help you. Stop cheating nothing have with love, more with respect and being faithfull to other people. And i think its just gift the same as love so not everyone is capable of it, so i d say my statment Twice a cheater alwasy a cheater:)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I personally believe everyone can change if they want to. I know a lot of people say it's not possible but I have seen it and done it. Perhaps you will change once you are truly in love and I think you can change if you want to. It's all up to you. Good luck!
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• Indonesia
22 Apr 07
yes always....
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