Do you think big is beautiful?

It's all about how you carry yourself. If you have good self esteem and you feel sexy, then you will be seen as sexy to others. I'm a large woman as well and I have a very handsome husband and two beautiful kids. My husband makes me feel good about myself everyday. There are men out there that like big women. What they don't like is someone who has low self esteem. Just don't be shy or worry about your weight. you are who you are and if they like it, then good, and if they don't, then oh well, just keep on moving. You seem like you have it together and I'm sure there are people that think you are sexy. And I think big women can be sexy, it's all how you carry it. :)

I think that it all depends on how you represent yourself. I think that many bigger woman are beautiful. They dress to enhance their figures. They use proper hygene. You obviously are comfortable with yourself and take care of yourself. I think that the bigger ladies who dress like slops and smell give all big ladies a bad name.

I too am a larger girl and well I've gotten over all the media hype about being thin. I think it's ridiculous that people judge other people based on something as silly as weight. Weight does not make a person ugly, a person's personality, confidence, sense of humor and everything else that makes up a person's attitude is what makes people beautiful. You can be skinny, with a great complexion, but if you have a horrible personality, I'll find you extremely unattractive. I wish more people thought this way, it would be so much simpler.

I think that pretty is as pretty does. on other words it is not your size that matters but how you act and or treat others that does matter. People can treat others as they would like to be treated and maybe this world would be a little nicer? Anyway, there are real health problems that can cause someone to be overweight,, or even under weight, and it is sad that people try to make everyone think that everyone can be the same size with enough effort when its not really true it is better to be one size than to keep going up and down in size. Also there are people of all diffferent sizes that wear clothing that they really may want to think again about for one reason or another in my opinion. Hope you are having a great day, and don't worry about what people say it is more important that you are comfortable with who is looking back at you from your own mirror.

I find beauty in all sizes.Where people are concerned what they look like is way down on the ladder.I care more about who they are inside.You can close your eyes and block out the sight of someone but who they are on the inside will still scream to you. I think you are a nice larger woman that is trying to become at ease in a body you are making an effort to accept.If I were you I wouldn't worry about weather or not big is beautiful.You are beautiful..You are special..That house you reside in isn't who you are,Honey. I look at skinny models in mags and on tv and they look ill.How awful for them to be starving themselves on purpose when children all over this planet die due to lack of food every day. Sweets just be yourself..I have the feeling you have a sexy personality that will shine through any size body..Don't allow this crazy world to dictate what you feel you should look like..Those that judge you because of what you look like do not make good friends unless you are shallow also and I suspect you are not. I bet that most men perfer women that have a little weight.Most men according to research do not consider skinny woman sexy. Hugs

yes, I think big is Beautifull. Especially if you are feel comfortable with it. I'm also agree with you that big is also sexy and beautifull. so, keep on what ever u wish as long as u feel happy and dont ever think to do on diet ok.

I totally agree with you. I see nothing wrong with bigger sized women in the least. I think it is a sad state to our society that we tend to think the more skinney a person is the more beautiful they are. I am so glad that you have the attitude that you do about yourself. That is the most important thing is that you feel good about yourself.

Size has nothing to do with being sexy or a person's character. I am glad that you are comfortable with yourself, that is all that matters. Not what others think. I commend you my dear.. P.S. I painted a picture animal character of Big is beautiful. It is in my shop if you care to look at it: http://www.cafepress.com/margieanneart

Size has nothing to do with being sexy or a person's character. I am glad that you are comfortable with yourself, that is all that matters. Not what others think. I commend you my dear..

I don't care what size anyone is. They're all beautiful. If you work the way you are and feel good about it then more to you. You have done what everyone else shuns. I look for the beauty in someone. And if you think you look good then you're beautiful

I prefer my women to look healthy, like muscle and a few pounds of fat seems fine to me.

Maybe it's really about time we have to discard the polished and thin image of a beautiful woman in our mindset as the ultimate definition of beauty. It's about time we have to face the fact that no matter what we do, we could not be as thin as those parading models in the catwalk. Just imagine all the sacrifices they made just to get that modelic body and you will be sick to learn of such. You can really be beautiful even if not thin. Beauty emanates from within. If you have that beauty originating internally, then you are beautiful no matter what. We don't have to be victim of the Hollywood and fashionista culture. Big ladies, stand up now and be recognized.

Obvioulsy, you are talking about physical beauty. Any woman, big or small, that doesn't take care of herself, i.e.,bathing or showering daily, washing her hair, wearing clothes that are clean, wearing deodorant, is not beautiful. A woman doesn't have to be big to be "ugly". I have seen many thin women that do no take care of themselves and look nasty. The stereotype comes in when people think that all big people are lazy, that is why they are big. This is so untrue. I just chalk this type of ignorant thinking up to the lack of tolerance in this world of someone whom is different from what "society" deems is normal. I am big, beautiful, confident, hard working and successful in most things I do. I am far from lazy. The only thing about me better than my outer beauty is my inner beauty. If we are beautiful on the inside, the rest of the package is pretty fantastic also. PEACE

I am a bigger women. I have been called fat since I was seven years old. Although I agree that big is beautiful. I do not agree that fat is beautiful. I think bigger women then the standard of what we see in magazines and some so called movie stars is absolutely beautiful! The most beautiful women in the world have a bit of meat on their bones that make them a little more curving that the standard skinny stick pole of a women. Don't get me wrong I feel bad for the super skinny women that can not gain weight but desperately wants to. Yes believe it or not there are some like that out there. About the beautiful big women; indeed she is so extremely beautiful until she becomes fat. There is nothing sexy about bulging out all over the place with drooping leg fat causing her to waddle. For that matter it is not sexy or beautiul for a man either. I am a big women.. when I was younger I was called fat by my friends and voluptous by old men. Since I didn't want to be looked upon with drools from old men I took that as a negative and I suppose it added to my list of reasons to be fat. I wish now I had that little curvy body back. I am working on it. I have been fat for too many years then I should of allowed. As much as I have tried to believe that fat is beautiful it is not. When I slip into bed at night wanting to be sexy for my husband I know the truth is there is nothing sexy about it. My wonderful husband never does anything or says anything to make me feel any less of a women and makes me feel like a size 5 when we are making love. God bless him for that. I recently had a talk with him saying to him it is wrong for him to not say anything about my weight. If I was naturally a bigger women that would be one thing but I am not I am obease! He should love me enough to hurt my feeling and ask me in love to take better care of myself. I will take this a step further and say that I believe women who go on a band wagon to say fat is beautiful and I love myself the way that I am is only covering up for the fact that to them it is easier to except themselves fat than it is to try and get their bodies into a healty and slimmer condition . Yes I know being fat doesn't mean out of shape if they are being physcial active and exercising but they are still overweight to an extreme and there is no way they can truely say that it doesn't affect them in some negative way. So maybe the question should really be; how big is to big. When does big beautiful women become discustingly obese women? The later is me in case you are wondering!

Beauty really lies with how we present ourself to others. Thats why one intelligent person quoted as " Beauty lies beneath the skin". so just go forward.

I love you already. You seem to be such a nice lady and really the size is not important. It was a pleasure reading what you wrote. You can be proud of yourself and who you are. Your feelings are right and if you feel sexy, it means you are. You are so beautiful in the inside and I admire your way of thinking. Keep being yourself and don't worry about all these stupid norms that the medias are imposing on us. As long as you are healthy, that is the real goal. I wish you a happy day and to me you are the prettiest woman with a wonderful soul.

my friend, being big is still beautiful.. what is importans it what we have inside rather than what's physical, I have big friends as well and i am proud to say that, they are all happy and content with their lives.. SMILE! YOU are BEAUTIFUL!

I think the beauty of a person lies in her personality not her size.It's how a person feels about herself.At the first glance people might judge a person by her looks ,but when they hear you and know you more ,it's the strength of character and confidence in being who you are that makes you beautiful.

definitely big is beautiful! not just beautiful but also sexy. being sexy and beautiful depends on how you feel and how you treat yourself. if you think poorly of yourself, then you won't feel sexy and beautiful ever in your entire life. the reason why I'm saying this, it is because I dig larger ladies, I see how beautiful and sexy those ladies are and admire their confidence and how they carry themselves.

Big is certainly beautiful! not just beautiful but also sexy! no matter how big you are it depends on how you feel about yourself! they say skinny is sexy but I say being sexy comes from within! by the way I dig larger ladies. LOL!