How do you deal with the "ugly" things about your self ?
April 23, 2007 8:39pm CST
i`ll try to change it without change my principle. not easy, but keep trying. i`m typical of honest people. i know i have much "ugly" things in my self. no body`s perfect! isn`t ? do you can receive at honestly you have "ugly" things in your self ? how do you deal it ?
24 Apr 07
i am open to criticisms esp if they are constructive. when someone tells me something negative, i try to change it if i m in control but i see to it that i am not doing it just to please everybody. I belive that i don't have to please everyone!
24 Apr 07
Most people like to be someone else. I was like that before. All I have to do is not to focus the ugly things I have in life instead I will focus the good things. For me, it doesn't matter how I look physically but what matters most is how I deal my life. That's why I meditate everyday.
25 Apr 07
yes nobody's perfect, dealing with ugly things about yourself can make you a negative person. you know you just see your not so good part but then you forget that you had also your positive part, like your talents and personality. For example, for you, you look ugly, you are fat and dark, you just reverse the feeling, you just look at your personality, maybe if your ugly or fat or dark, you are a jolly person, you are very helpful, coz when people see you happy despite of that, they will forget what you look like. they will be inspired by you.