What makes you decide to add me as your friend?

@jencai (3415)
Philippines
April 24, 2007 2:07am CST
Good day to all of my friends and other MyLot members! As I check the list of my friends, I have noticed that the number has grown in just 4 weeks. I wonder what makes you decide to add me as one in your friends list? Does anyone have any criteria for doing so? In my part, I send a friend's invitation whenever I found a member really interesting and with good values. How about you? Please share your comments here. Have a nice day everyone!
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22 responses
• United States
25 Apr 07
I too wonder why someone wants to add me as a friend. I don't see the point of the list other then bragging rights for a high number. Yes, I know some people do respond to their friends topics and all that good stuff. That's fine but I usually don't do that because the olny reason people want to add me is because of that. That to me is not a "friend" but just someone to use. I haven't seen any of my "friends" respond to any of my topics.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Ohh I see. Thank's for sharing your feelings here!
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• United States
24 Apr 07
I like to add people who love my interests. If they are someone I find myself answering their posts. I will add them to my friends list. I like topics of real life issues. These would be the best friends on my list. They are also above the 7 star as well. I find birds of a feather flock together. I also love to read a post and truly feel like I can relate to it.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Absolutely right. Thank's for the response!
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@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
24 Apr 07
I use more or less the same criteria as you do. If I think someone's discussions or replies are interesting I like to add them as a friend. If I receive a friend request I usually accept everyone, although I will be doing a spring clean soon as there are a number of people who I have added as friends and responded to their discussions but they haven't responded to mine.
@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
That's nice. I also accep all friends request and I'm planning to remove those inactive members. Thank's for the response!
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@lols189 (4797)
30 Apr 07
i decided to add you jencai as you are an open and honest person and your discussions really interesting and i have realised now you are one of my great friends in mylot as i have come to like you better as i have got to know you through mylot
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
Ohhh, you are so sweet my dear. I feel flattered for what you have said. Thank you so much!
@robert19ph (4584)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I have added you as because you are my countrymates and your responses are very good. Good evening my friend.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Thank's for adding me my friend! Have a good evening too. Good night.
@petspets (476)
• Antarctica
25 Apr 07
Hello. I except you as my friend because you come across as a nice, warm, likable person. Have a good night's sleep and a great day tomorrow ( Friday) and a pleasant weekend.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
You're really so sweet my dear friend. Thank's for the message! Hope you have a great sleep too.
@Augustta (1860)
• Poland
25 Apr 07
First of all you reply to my post and in this way i "know you". I never will say stop to having friends. A friend is a gift,and just the notion of "friendship"make me happy and secure... Let alone the fact you replied to me,but i looked in your posts and all is great...and your avatar too... many hugs, augusta
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I remember you, I have responded to one of your discussions. And I feel great because you have invited me to be one of your friend. Thank's for the response!
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@yxinxin (466)
• China
25 Apr 07
I am still a newbie here. I've just add you as my friend because I am interested in your posts.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Thank's for adding me to your list of friends!
@ryanphil01 (4186)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
anyone who sends me request to be a friend, i had no second thoughts of accepting him/her because i am here to make friends. mylot is not only an earning money program but a friendship site. for me, you are all welcome.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
That's nice to hear from you. Thank's for responding!
• Malaysia
25 Apr 07
Only if you consider me as your friend too.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
It's a pleasure to meet and have more friends here. I would love to accept everyone's invitation. Thank's for the response!
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• United States
24 Apr 07
your posts had a lot to do with why I asked you to be my friend!
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Thank you so much for your appreciation!
@woyaofly (61)
• China
24 Apr 07
maybe you have the same hobby or he or she feel you a good person and like to be a friend of yours,through the word you have said, i guessed that you must be the person who like to make friends,am i rihgt,would you like to be a friend of mine, i am waiting you approve me!
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I accepted your invitation this afternoon. Thank's for adding me!
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• India
24 Apr 07
It is said that a friend in need is a friend indeed. In sense I can not be your friend. In Sanskrit the word "friend" means "Suhrithu" which means a person having a good heart. In that Mylot friends can be your friend.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Thank's for the comment!
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@stvasile (7317)
• Romania
24 Apr 07
I added you to my friends list after I started a discussion where I said that I need more serious friends on MyLot. You proved yourself to be a worthy friend and I chose to keep you as a friend.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Yeah, I remember that discussion you have started. Thank you so much for keeping me as your friend!
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• China
24 Apr 07
As you know , today is my first day to log in MyLot and you are my 1st responsor!I appreciate our friendship and like to more more about you!May the peace and joy of your life today and alway!My dear friend,Jencai!--Bati from Shanghai,China.
@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Yeah, I remeber you. You are one of the new member of this site. Everyone is welcome to be my friend. Happy posting!
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@eshaan (6193)
• India
24 Apr 07
Ya , I also wonder why people add me on friend's list without knowing or answering to the discussions. I have recently joined some unknown friends, but there is no other objective so I add them and make friends with them.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Thank's for the response! Hope we find more answer here.
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• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Hi Jencai. I like you and I can relate to some of your posts. Also we are from the same place and it makes me feel at home to have friends like you. You are really nice to answer back on responses to your discussions. I'm sorry I haven't been dropping in to your discussions lately. I've got some technical problems that makes me unable to be online for long. Thanks and have a great day.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
It's good to hear that you're back. Thank's for your appreciation! See you later.
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• Philippines
24 Apr 07
i added you because i saw you started a great post, because i wanted you to add up to my network of friends, because the more friends responded to your post the more earnings you got. but most of all, i added you because i really wanted to be a friend to you. will that makes sense to you why i added you to my friends circle?
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I see, that's ok. I really appreciate you for inviting me. Thank's for the response!
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@laiza14 (593)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
im not yet your friend but, maybe one those reasons is that she'he wants helkp from you, or to get intouch with you as well i guess. :)
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Yeah, maybe you're right. Thank's for the response!
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@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I add some and delete some, sort of mixing and matching. I prefer to have friends that can help me post quality discussions, because I think you already know that I'm more of a responder. I delete those who are not active for a long time, and those whom are not providing me more more quality postings. I also delete those who try to flood my friends' discussion lists with irrelevant, nonsense topics. Because I don't want my performance here to suffer, and I try to avoid to those types of postings too..
@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I see, I know that you a great responder. You give most of your best responses on my posts. You do it very well that's why I am really proud of having you. Thank's for the response!
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