Help me out............

@rapolu_cs (1184)
India
April 24, 2007 6:31am CST
Now a days iam observing that my husband is complaing that iam ignoring him in every respect and very much kneen to my 2yr old son and even says that this care to him will spoil him and we often get to quarrel these days.Any solutions to keep both of them equal happy with my service.
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@ten010 (81)
• India
24 Apr 07
Being a father of a two year old baby girl, I strongly support you. You are doing nothing special to your son. and if your husband is a real person then he would understand in time. Donot worry for him. Only thing just give him some time at bed when you feel bit less tired. Hopefully he will come to understand your position.
@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
25 Apr 07
Thank you.
@samson1967 (7422)
• India
24 Apr 07
When my son was born even I was upset with my wife, and felt that she is ignoring me. Later, I realised that her care for my son has made me to think that way. It is natural that you have to give prominence to your son, at the same time dont forget to care for your husband needs.
@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
25 Apr 07
Thank you very much.
@wmaharper (2316)
• United States
24 Apr 07
I think it's problably perfectly normal what your hubby is feeling. He is no longer the only needy man in your life. (not trying to be insulting men, sorry) (; I think you should def. talk to him about it, and find a solution together. Find out what's most important to him, does he like you to find time in the day to ask him how his day was, does he like it when you cook dinner for him? etc. Find the most important thing, and make sure you do that for him every day. Once you get that one down, add a couple more that top his list. (this is also a good idea for him to do for you, it's a great way to connect, and put each other first, which is vital to a lasting relationship). Also, make sure you are takign some 'couple' time. Your son is old enough to be left with a sitter ,so do it. Set up a date with your hubby once a week, and keep it. Dress up for him, shave your legs (i know, I sometimes will go a while before doing that, but they notice!). put your hair up and just enjoy each other's company!