What role do you play in your relationship?

@34momma (13918)
United States
April 24, 2007 8:26pm CST
Are you the giver or the taker? Out going one or the laid back one? Or are you on the same wave length? I know in my relationship we are about the same. we are both laid back, we are both givers and takers. yet he is more of the cuddle type.
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• United States
26 Jun 07
We are both givers and takers. We both have our days when all we do is take and then days when it seems like all we do is give with nothing in return. My husband is the leader and I pretty much just go with the flow. My husband is like yours he is the cuddling type and I am not. I need my space,Idon't want someone hanging off my shoulder every second. I don't need that kind of attention.
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@34momma (13918)
• United States
28 Jun 07
LOL. i see that we are like. i am really not a cuddle girl!
@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
25 Apr 07
Hello,34momma,I am not in a relationship at this moment.If you talk about my past relationship, I think I was both a taker or giver,in fact a relationship should be a two way one, both party give and take at the same time. We were both outgoing type as we would always try to find some similar interests together and meet the friends of each other and enlarge our social circles.
@34momma (13918)
• United States
25 Apr 07
that is awesome and that is the way it should be
• United States
25 Apr 07
In my relationship I fell like I am the giver, giver, giver ( u get the point). But we are both pretty laid back at the same time.
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@34momma (13918)
• United States
25 Apr 07
you must follow the law of opposites, which stats in order for anything to work you must together. give and take, in and out, up and down, dark and light. find ways where he is giving too
@Stiffler07 (1356)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Oh, well that's an easy one, I play the King of Kings! ..... I'm really good at it to, don't you agree 34momma???
@34momma (13918)
• United States
25 Apr 07
ummmm sure honey uummmm whatever you say.... oh were you talking to me, i wasn't listening!
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
In the two year relationship i have right now with my boyfriend, i think both of us are the giver and the taker. We always try to make things equal for both of us that is learning to compromise. From the experiences we have for the past years of being friends and as a couple weve grown as mature individuals. We learned more about our strenghts and weaknesses.
@34momma (13918)
• United States
25 Apr 07
that is a good way to work a relationship, good for you girl
• Malaysia
25 Apr 07
dont know why i cant tell....
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