How long should you date before you say " I love u"?

@ellie26 (4128)
Malaysia
April 25, 2007 1:00am CST
People fall in and out of love. Have long does it take you to say those three beautiful words? Is it a few days, a week or much longer before you know your own feelings?
5 responses
@bindishah (2062)
• India
25 Apr 07
I guess when you say it depends on how you feel. Sometimes you may feel that way after just meeting a couple times and sometimes it takes much longer. I think it took me one month of talking on the phone and 2 weeks of meeting to say it.
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@bindishah (2062)
• India
3 May 07
Thank you for the BR
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I think there is no exactly number of dates or days before i sa "i love you". I will just say it when i exactly feel that i really love him. There is no exact date for me when will i say it, just i will go with the flow.
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• Melbourne, Australia
25 Apr 07
I told my husband I loved him after we had 1st talked on the phone for a few hours. We had not ever met & the next day I asked him to marry me. I still at this point had never met him face to face. We have been married for 10.5 years now.
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• United States
25 Apr 07
It's usually more than a few days even a few weeks for me. And, I never say it under pressure or to manipulate a situation. If I feel it, I let it be known. If I don't feel a deep sense of affection for someone, there is nothing to discuss. I am not one of those persons that are in love -with being - in love either; Thus I evaluate where a possbile relationship is going if I don't feel at least something after a few weeks. If I feel nothing, I move on. If there is even a little something, I wait to see what is going to progress. But, I never jump on something just for the sake of it.
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@geeta151 (312)
• India
25 Apr 07
Well this depends upon the people involved and the intensity of their relationship.The amount of understanding matters.You should both feel comfortable enough to proceed further.Some may take all the time in the world ,but some might feel close within a couple of days.Whatever it is be mature enough and then deciede.
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