Is online flirting, cheating?

@saralee1 (1983)
United States
April 26, 2007 1:38am CST
My husband and I both do it. we have our special people, but we always come back to each other. Is this just downright immoral? we both enjoy it so much! It would be a shame if it was.
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6 responses
• United States
26 Apr 07
I think if both of you know what each other are doing and aren't hiding something from the other person it is alright. lying is the worst, flirting can always be fun but just as long as there are limits to all this i think it is okay. It can be fun to laugh over and play around with as long as both of you are honest and know your limitations :)
@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
26 Apr 07
Well, we always tell people we are married, straight off the bat.Mainly to prevent those looking for a serious relationship from getting hurt. I call it harmless flirting, so does he. LOL!
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• United States
29 Apr 07
You and him both define your own morality. If it brings you both pleasure for whatever reason, but at the end of it all you are in eachothers arms. THen there's no harm in it. You both have real love and can find real lust online. You get to have your cake and eat it too!
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@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
29 Apr 07
real lust online. Oh that sounds terrific!(kid in candy store) ok, this sounds too good, LOL!
@emeraldisle (13145)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I see nothing wrong with it. You stated you tell people you are married. You both are honest with them and with each other that you are doing it. Neither of you have a problem with it, so why worry? So long as you are happy then that is all that matters. I wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like you have a very healthy releationship.
@saralee1 (1983)
• United States
26 Apr 07
yep, I sure do tell people I am married. and, I usually add "Happily".
@thai11 (239)
• United States
26 Apr 07
Good for you guys! If you are both open about it and are not hiding anything...why not?? Plus who is one to judge another and tell them what immoral is anyways??? No one is without faults!!
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@chertsy (3804)
• United States
26 Apr 07
Honestly I don't think nothing is wrong with harmless flirting. Since your husband knows and does the same thing. You both let the people know online that your married. I think flirting is a great way to build a person's esteem up. It makes you feel good about yourself. I mean who doesn't love when a complete stranger flirts with you. Wouldn't be human if you didn't.
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I dont see anything wrong with innocent flirting. Your not hideing anything fron each other. I'm married and I do it once in a while. I always tell those that I'm talking to that I'm married. its just innocent teasing. Take care!!
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