how often do you say i love you?

@daryljane (3439)
Philippines
April 26, 2007 1:47am CST
how often do you say i love you? is there a certain number of times you say it in a day? or you just say it only when you feel like it? for me, i say it only when i feel like it..but i make sure to give my partner assurance everyday. i also sure that they know i love them.
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@vicky19810 (1601)
• China
26 Apr 07
hi friend,for me ,it is a long time not to say "i love you"to my boyfriend.i do not know why ,but maybe i have a little shamefaced,or my boyfriend does not like to say this words.
• Pakistan
26 Apr 07
How it is possible? You love each other and not say in words? Say it ... there will be special feeling for you in the hearth of your boyfriend.
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
really? i guess when youre in love theres nothing to be ashamed of. say it, like what effetivehope said, there a great feeling when you say it.. what im wondering is why your boyfriend doesnt like it when you say it..hmmmm
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• China
26 Apr 07
yes,friends,you are right exactly.i think that my boyfriend does not like to say "i love you",but he would not like to not to hear if i say it,lol...i know it,thank you friends.
@raijin (10380)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I don't count it, and I don't say it just because out of nonsense. I say I love you to my loved ones when I mean it, as I don't want to play with their feelings and be unfair to them.
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
thats right! its not right to play with their emotions..like saying it when you dont really mean it..i dont do that! thats why i dont say it when i dont want to say it. thanks for that!
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@raijin (10380)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
Just like what Jimmy Santos says, "I love you three times a day"!LoL But it should be meant with sincerity, to keep our loved ones' trust for us!;)
@galatea (687)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
I love you three times a day? Haha! I almost forgot about that one but wouldn't it be nice if someone said that and meant it? :)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
everyday!
• Pakistan
26 Apr 07
Is it necessary every day?
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
wow! how sweet of you!
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• United States
26 Apr 07
With my son I say "I love you" everyday, and a lot of times. With my husband I am lax, I say "I love you" and have a good day before he leaves for work and then again before we go to bed. But, I know that he know I love him and I know that he loves me. We do say "I love you" sporadically when we end a phone conversation with each other. But, after so many years together, it seems that we do not say it as often. I know that we love each other and we try to show it everyday, in the way we do things for each other, and the way that we live our lives, faithfully.
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
i guess sometimes that when youre both comfortable already with each other since youre already living together for many years, you dont get to say it that often anymore..could that be it?
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@nengs10 (3189)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
say i love you - i love you
I love to be loved as much as i love to say "I love you" to my partner and to my family. Saying those words can truly uplift your soul. Those are words of love. And love is the most precious thing in this world. Love is very encompassing. However, we must admit that saying it is not enough. Like any others, I also say those words if I really feel it. I don't want to fool others as much as I don't want to fool myself. It has to come with actions too. Saying those words would remind my loved ones how I value them as part of my life. I love them. Also, it has to be coupled with right actions and gestures. For instance, I would give presents or flowers to my girlfriend while saying those words. in doing so, it becomes more real. It becomes more expressive and true.
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
thats a good one there! i agree when you said that it uplift ones soul and that saying it is not enough...i say it and i add up taking care of the person i truly love..and yes, saying it is only reminding them that i love them...thanks!
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• United States
26 Apr 07
I say it all the time! every time i end a conversation with my boyfriend everytime i leave him even just to the store i always say it gives him reassurance and i love to say it, only 3 little words mean a whole lot to one person. whenever he says it to me on his own i am so happy it feels good
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
thats sweet! your bf is indeed lucky to have you!
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• Pakistan
26 Apr 07
there are no numbers. But you feel that it should be there, I use it. Number is not important but the time and conditions are imp. Isn't it?
@daryljane (3439)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
i see..thanks for that...its not that im counting it though, there are just times that i dont say it in a day.
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@galatea (687)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
I remember when my boyfriend was still sort of courting me. We were already a couple but not official, not formal, you get the idea. It was easy for me to have said I love you to him anytime but I wanted it to have meaning, nowadays those three words are uttered as if it didn't have any meaning and responsibility tagged with it. I think it worked, that he really felt that I loved him, the first few times that I told so. Now that we're a tad bit further into our relationship, I say it more often but always when I feel it is true in my heart that I love him.
• India
26 Apr 07
i say this daily to my gf but why did u ask this i think i have discuss this topic before hey did that topic u have started again
@nanayangel (7729)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I say I love you when I feel like it which is usually a few times a day. Also when I feel that there is a need for it. I believe that it is somehting that should be given out generously to people who are worthy of it.
@twils2 (1821)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I tell my wife that I love her all the time. when there's nothing else to say I just say "I love you" to her just for the sake of conversation. Take care!!
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
i say i love you as much as i can and whenever i feel like saying it. i like to reassure my love ones that i do love them and that i mean it. the moment i stop saying i love you, that means that there is something wrong with me. to my husband, i say it to him every morning and every night before we go to bed. or at times when we are just staying side by side, tapping our keyboards or just anytime of the day. for my parents, my siblings, i tell them i love you whenever i get to talk to them. whenever i send messages... it has became a habit that instead of saying goodbye, we'll say love you at the end of the conversation :)