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Pure Heart - My name is red
Malaysia
April 26, 2007 4:47am CST
While in love, people always promise everything, anything that good to hear and will do anything for it. What your big sacrifice to your relationship, or to your partner? Can we share about it!
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• United States
29 Apr 07
I think we all make promises with good intentions in our hearts - but we don't always live up to our promises. I think that is okay though - as long as you are good to your loved one and treat them with respect. The biggest sacrifice in a relationship is giving up your individuality. Often times you make decisions based as a couple and not as an individual, which means that things you may like are not as important as what you both can accept and live with.
• Malaysia
29 Apr 07
Yeah booboo :) i think it should be that way...Maybe it looks promising but the thing is, we go into that direction to make it reality. Sometime, i hate too when the promise gone as just promise...Whatever it is, nice to see your post booboo. I don't know, i think everyone here noticin that you alway give good post to the topics, and i alway take note for your word booboo. Thanks :)
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• United States
29 Apr 07
Well Bhai, I always take special notice of your words. I feel that even though the words are written, I hear your voice speaking to me from many miles away. I pray that you only have people surround you that give and keep their words.
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• Malaysia
29 Apr 07
Thank you so much booboo :) Thanks for the time you spent to send all those words to me, it's kinda sacrifice too right?
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• Philippines
30 Apr 07
me its been 1 yr and 3 months and the sacrifice i made was giving her all my time although its not much of a sacrifice but still it could be counted coz i enjoy having her as a company and of course i love her
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• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
Yes, spending our time also being count for it. Some never realize that, but as you realize it, that means you concern with your relationship. :)
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• United States
26 Apr 07
When I fell in love with my husband we promised to love each other for the rest of our lives, no matter what happens. We would do anything for each other because we love each other. We promised to stay together and love one another without straying to love another. I really do not feel like I have scarificed anything to be married to my husband. I am very greatful to have him and he is greatful to have me as his wife. It is nice to be able to spend time each day with someone you love and want to be with. The only thing I guess I have sacrificed is other men. I am faithful to my husband.
• Malaysia
29 Apr 07
Good to hear my dear friend :) you're so lucky i think, it seems you have what you seek in your life. The most important thing is faithful. Yes. I think this is important.
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• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I think the big sacrifice that i do in our relationship is that when my father make me choose between my husband and him. I choose my husband. My father really got angry with me, he closes the bank account that she gave me, and even my sisters and mother is been forbid by my father to go see me. Its my greatest sacrifice to my husband and in our relationship as of now.
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• Malaysia
29 Apr 07
I don't know how to comment this my friend, that is something hardly to do. After your marriage, did your father still cannot accept it? I like to know my dear friends. I too have a problem quit similar to you..
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• Philippines
26 Apr 07
hi! yeah, couples make lots of promises to one another and everything is for the common good, some may come true but most of the time we all regret in the end as they say "promises are made to be broken" The biggest sacrifice i've done in the past is to love unconditionally, that whatever happened, come what may i stick with him but in the end i loose him still since im no longer happy with the way he treated me, we can no longer make compromises.
• Malaysia
26 Apr 07
Hmmm :) i think it's kinda weird right, when we push hard on something, it never goes like we want it to be, it alway resulting dissapointment...It's LOVE right..
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