Who take blame everytime there's a breakup?

There are times when one of the partners had done a very serious offense. In that case, that person should be blamed for the breakup - we do really love our partners, but sometimes we too have limits and can only take so much before we decide that it's time to settle the score. A lot of times, a simple misunderstanding leads to a breakup. Communication is really important in a relationship and failure to have a really good communication can lead to serious effects. In that case, both should take the blame - for communication to work, it needs both partners to cooperate, both partners to commence, and both partners to listen. Communication, like love, isn't just a one-way street - both can talk, but both should also try and listen what the other is saying.

I believe that a simple misunderstanding could be the possible culprit of a breakup. If a couple splits over something small then it wasn't meant to be for them. Sounds corny, I know but I believe in soul mates and that there is that "one" for everyone. Money is another HUGE factor that can tear couples apart!

this is a tough one. but, i can share mine. i think its communication gap and the intrusion of a third person (not infidelity). in our case it was his ever meddling mother. this is very common in my country but then mine was an extreme case with situations hard to cope with. i put some blame to myself aswell. me, being a very silent and soft person wouldn't dare to speak outright and eventually when i did, he didnot believe. he escaped the whole situation. they say, love conquers all, but it doesn't. i still love him but that's not the end word. thank you.

Those are big reasons that you listed but there are others. One of the biggest thing in a break up that I have noticed is lack of communication. It is very important to talk to one another in honesty so there can be no misunderstandings. If you approach each other right away when you have a question on something that you think is wrong the situation can be cleared up instead of sitting and festering and a mountain being made out of a mole hill. There is no blame to one inparticular person. Both have to take some of the blame. It takes two to make a fight. It takes two to end up in a breakup.