General-friendship ... any gender ?

@frodloo (424)
Indonesia
April 28, 2007 6:11am CST
if your good friend is rude to you on one day and kind on another, would your friendship change towards that friend ?
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6 responses
• United States
28 Apr 07
What do you mean by this? Can you please expound on the topic. Thanks! Hope to here from you soon.
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@frodloo (424)
• Indonesia
28 Apr 07
LOLz .... i`m so sorry if you all cannot understand what on my discuss (please do not give me negative rate :D ) okey .. i mean ..... if your best friend has rude you one day, would that will be towards your friendship ? (just like that may be that i can descriptive my discussion ) i hope you can understand. thank you for your careful ;) have nice day
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@horsesrule (1957)
• United States
29 Apr 07
If I have a friend that is nice to me one day, then treats me like a stranger or is rude to me on another day, I would go straight to them and ask what is going on? I would ask why they are acting like that. I would want to know if they are mad at me or what, but I would find out what was going on. Now if that person who I thought was my friend was nice to me when we are alone but then was rude to me in front of other people, then we will not be friends anymore. I don't play that game. We are either friends all the time, not just when you don't want to be alone or we are NOT friends all the time. Anything else is not fair to me and my feelings. In fact, its just mean.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
30 Apr 07
It definetly will because I do not like people that are that way at all. It will be nice if those people don't have double personality or something.
• Philippines
1 May 07
it depends on how grave it is... i may be able to let it pass but if it hurt me big time, it will take longer before i'll forget it.
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
i didnt get what you mean. but assuming your friend i kind and suddenly become rude to you, then i'd talk to my friend and ask if there is something that's bothering him or if i do something that offends him. but if the friends is just really like that, rude this day and be kind the next then i wouldn't know what to do. i would even know how to make friends with someone like that.
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@jianhong (739)
• Singapore
28 Apr 07
I guess you should add in more details to your ques. Anyway, i will not change the good friendship we have between us. However, if this happen more than 3 or more times i will. Moreover, we are jus normal friend. I can choose to or not to ask him why he/she react like this.
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