Love is cheap ?
April 29, 2007 10:23am CST
Everybody talks about Love, when they are actually not talking about Love, but lust, because Love is is not cheap, it has intrinsic value. One Man see a girl and her outward appearance is good so lustily he may like her. Suppose he talks with her and understands her weakness/abilities then if he still like her that is a different issue.As bible says Love bears all, is it happen when you say about love, we have to find difference between love/lust/likeness. Let us not be deceitful when we talk about love next time.
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• Sao Paulo, Brazil
30 Apr 07
I know that I love this girl. I don't how nor why, but I love her so much that I can't even explain! It's different from what people say, that "You won't have courage to look into her eyes. You won't be able to say a word to her". I can talk to her, but my heart beats stronger. I love her so much I could give her my life. I could marry her right away. Even after knowing all her weaknesses, I still love her! It's only her that I want, and it's really painful to see other men looking at her body. It's really painful to know that she doensn't love me. I feel like I'm an incopetent. People tell me to give up, I just can't. She is the one. I can't let her go!
30 Apr 07
Well, this is kinda hard topic as it's really difficult to tell about the differences between love/lust/likeness. It is such an abstract concept. Or probably I'm not wise enough to understand their meanings. Partially speaking, i think they are all connnected. Why men or women would feel like talking with someone, or getting closer to him/her? That's what "lust" working behind, it produces kinda hormone inside our body to get us moved towards the one. And at this point, what we feel could only be "likeness". and after getting in touch with the one, with time passing by, we get to know more about him/her, and probably find something shining and attractive insides. We could really "love" each other then. What would you guys think?
29 Apr 07
usually, before love comes into the picture, the attraction is first conceived at the physical level. so it is physical attraction which comes in first. there is no love there yet between a man and a woman but, the awareness of the existence of each other. love gets to be developed as they know more of each other. sharing of interests, of likes and dislikes, finding the families of each one fine...will all lead to a deeper relationship.