How long was your first serious relationship?

@cancatis (406)
Brazil
April 29, 2007 11:41pm CST
Mine was 10-months long. It was okay for the first six or seven months, but then it started going down, badly. What about yours?
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
30 Apr 07
My first and current relationship is 8 years long and still counting. Its a God given relationship coz he made everything start smoothly and handle our relationship smoothly for it is centered in God.
@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
30 Apr 07
Wow, that was a perfect hit! =P Congratulations, Zelmarq!
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
30 Apr 07
Thank you!
@chaddik (113)
• Philippines
4 May 07
ohh..that's sweet!
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
It has been 3 years and 9 months getting steady. Proudly saying up to the now it's getting better. Relationships has it's ups and downs but no matter what, you have to work it out both. It's not easy but just the way you have love each other, your about to overcome things comes how great or badly it is. Just thanking God coz' He knew everything from the very start, He has been the strong foundation that makes us firm.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
30 Apr 07
Congratulations on your almost-4y relationship, shekaina ^^ Hope you stay together for all your lives (and beyond ^^)!
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• Philippines
4 May 07
My first serious relationship has just started.By now,we are already 4 mos but it seems like a lifetime already.we've known each other since we were kids.perhaps that's the reason why it feels like a life time.don't worry.everything will be ok through prayers and if you do something to fix it of course.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
6 May 07
Congratulations on having such a relationship, kat! I hope you two stay together for as long as you can, enjoying it. ^^ And for your suggestion... I've done that and I've found my precious girl for six months now, we're together for a month and a half. And it's only getting better. ^^
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
hi! my first one lasted about 4 and a half years before we had to part. it was serious enough to consider marriage but didn't last coz of a third party. my current one is almost 2 years. this is several years and a few relationships after my first. :)
• Philippines
5 May 07
yeah, i agree. better not waste time on just flings. a real one is worth waiting for. :) goodluck!
@chaddik (113)
• Philippines
4 May 07
wow! you're into long relationships, huh! well, i think we got some common story to tell. my last and longest relationship also lasted for four years and some months and it also ended because it involved a third party. it was sad but i have managed to move on. and now, i completely have! at the moment, i am single and waiting for the real one. i hate to just flirt around and get involved with flings. hopefully, ill be able to hit the real one after that bad break-up.
• United States
30 Apr 07
My first serious relationship is still going strong with my husband, he was my first serious relationship. At first everything seemed normal, then things got more serious, then of course we got married. It was unexpected, we both wanted to find someone that understood us, that could tell what one another was feeling, common bonds, and we did. I've never been as happy as I am now. It's the best relationship I've ever been in.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
30 Apr 07
Congratulations curvy =] It's always good to hear from someone who got it right at the first shot. ^^
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• Pakistan
30 Apr 07
wel mine is 3 yrs n still we r continueing wid it we both love each other.....
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• Canada
30 Apr 07
My first serious relationship is still happening, and I hope it will be my last, because we are very happy together. It's not his first, but it is mine. He and I have been together for two and a half years, so far, and we hope we will be together forever.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
30 Apr 07
If you're happy together, there's nothing as good as that, isnt it? My current relationship is so good that I can't even think of the last time when I felt this good. Congratulations to you, DC! ^^
@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
30 Apr 07
I have only had two serious relationships in life. The others were just simple flings. The first serious relationship lasted three years, we were even engaged before we broke up. My current husband is my second serious relationship, and it has been two wonderful years.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
30 Apr 07
Wow... some bad things happen so good things can happen, huh? I'm glad it did for you ^^ Congratulations!
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
2 years...There is nothing wrong with him... and there is nothing wrong with mee... but then we felt that we're no longer happy with each other... I guess we're just not meant for each other thats why... Now im with my new found love... I bet he would come along thats why FATE never let us meant to be... (my first serious relationship)
@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
1 May 07
Wow, if you change "2 years" to "10 months", it turns into my story! ^^ Thanks for the sharing and good luck!
• Philippines
3 May 07
My first real relationship was with my first love. We had it at almost 6 years but I just fell out of love with him but we broke up as friends because i was so honest in telling him i dont love him snymore, but i do care for him until now. And i also told him i fell in love with another.
@PunkyMcPunk (1477)
• Canada
4 May 07
My frst serious relationship lasted for 4 years. I wanted out so badly after the first 2 years but was too cowardly to act on my emotion. It was an extremely abusive relationship. Even to this day the guy still tries to contact me and find my whereabouts from old friends and family. I'm terrified of him. Even typing about it now is making me tense up.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
6 May 07
I promise I won't ask about him next time. =S thanks for the response, punky ^^
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
5 May 07
As a freshman in high school I dated a guy for two years, he was older though and when he left for college I was still in school. We stayed together for awhile-he was close enough to come visit on weekends, but eventually we broke up, it just didn't work out.
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• United States
30 Apr 07
mine was 2.5 years and it didn't go bad until the last six months. really ought to have broken up sooner, but ah well. lesson learned.
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
30 Apr 07
And forward we go. ^^ Hope you meet someone good soon!
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
hi friend! mine is 2years.. :D
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@cancatis (406)
• Brazil
1 May 07
Hi izzie! Congrats on you relationship ^^ And wow, you hitted 100 quickly!
• United States
30 Apr 07
My first relationship was 8 years long and I was heartbroken when it ended. My current relationship is 4 years and counting.