How hard to say goodbye to some you love?

Philippines
April 30, 2007 1:03am CST
Saying goodbye to someone you love is the hardest of all the words you can ever say in your entire life.Trully you can't appreciate someones existence not until he/she is totally gone in your life.Looking back are treasured memories, good or bad ? it doesn't really matter at all.The pain of letting them go will always be there in your heart.and accept that there is no permanent thing in this world. we all have to move on, dont let our ruined by our own future... as the sun sets its light towards the sky there still be tomorrow that promises million of rays towards us...
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@djmarion (4905)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
its true tha saying goodbye is very hard, especially when loosing the one you love, but with this pain we can be stonger. :)
• Philippines
2 May 07
your right it made me stronger...
@nanayangel (7696)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
Crying - Crying Woman
Hello there! Yeah, goodbye is the hardest word to say especially to someone who is really special to you and is close to your heart. But I guess it's better than losing someone without being able to say goodbye at all because there is a closure. I just hope that someday, we'll get to meet again those who said goodbye to us, and those who weren't able to do so. And we may talk and say the things that we mean to but were not able to.
• Philippines
1 May 07
i wish i can be able to... tnx
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
yes , we are only temporary here.Wht you wear wht you own or eat or wht ever things you have..is just temporay and so is over sorrow n pain.It will dwells away slowly.We will go oneday.So say let your love ones go first .Tell them we will join them oneday when the time has come for us.Let them prepare a home for us there to welcome us kater.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 07
nice...
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@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
30 Apr 07
Well goodbyes are never easy and in every part of a relationship goodbyes are the words that seem to too difficult to utter, specially to the one you love and the one you care about. The pain is so great that, as if the world stop turning and the heart stopped beating. But its a matter of moving on, things like these happen and when the expectations are not meet and we hurt another, sometimes we tend to end it and decide to cut the connection and move on separate lives. We have to look beyond the pain and the hurt to grow more and be a better person and learn from that expereince.
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
its really hard to say good bye to someone who is so special to you.. even just a special friend :((
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@krishkorp (427)
• India
1 May 07
Its very hard to let go of somebody u really love even if we know that he/she is not happy with us .But i don't beleive in tying down somebody to me because thats not love thats obsession which is very dangerous to our love only.So it's hard ,yes of course but neverthless somethings have to be done no matter how difficult it is.what say?
@swapw07 (247)
• United States
1 May 07
Saying good bye to someone I love to me is hard in the very first day in any situation, but once I gain my reason and concious life goes on. I think good bye a lot of times does not mean things are over but a new beginning.
• United States
1 May 07
It was THIS time last year when we knew my grandma then 92 was gonna die. Our family my parents and me at 1 yrs old moved into her house and never were able to leave. Now last year this time me, my 2 younger sisters and parents had to say good bye. She was SO healthy and then got bladder cancer/tumor when she turned 90! She could have hit 100 easily has this NOT happened! :(( I recall I didnt want to be in there much and then we had to say good bye. I was pretty much crying and holding Rainbow my dog who loved my grandma very much! I mean we were trying to NOT let her know she was dying (sad I know) but we knew it and I had to say good bye. Its gonna be a year sinc she passed on May 10th. I just want it to come and go quickly and get it over with. It wont be easy. Even though we moved out of the house to this one last Nov. Nothing has been the same or easier. Its not just hard to say good bye. Its nearly impossible. And when you do count on a million tears to go with it. I gotta stop writing. I'm making myself all weepy. :((
• Pakistan
30 Apr 07
Well its quite hard. But the fact of the matter is that eventually one of the two compiles the courage to eventually take the final stand. It has happened for many reasons but mostly due to the fact that their ideas and thoughts are not alike!! Thats what has happened to me!!!
@kcrysea (196)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
saying goodbye is not an easy thing. But we have to bear in mind that the only permanent thing in this world is change. Ive said goodbye to some already and its not that easy to move on, you also have to learn how to accept that this is meant to be...you just have to be strong at all times.
@aryan77 (73)
• India
30 Apr 07
its really very hard to say goodbye to someone whom u love more then anything but thanks to god that i hdn't got any chance till now but i know how painfull it is!
• United States
30 Apr 07
What is really hard is not getting the chance to say goodbye to a loved one.
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
it's very difficult.. really really difficult. . i don't like saying goodbye to someone that i love.. i think i can't say it out.. i feel as if i'm losing everything that i had.. if you know the person you love is gone forever.. i'm sure.. you won't have the spirit to go on anymore.. but this is life.. you just have to accept the fact right? the only thing i can do is to keep her in my heart.. and life goes on.. working harder for her.. thinking of her all the time..eventhough i know i can't be with her.. but i know.. if i love her much..god will somehow send her back to me.. but in the form of other being.. that's what i believe =)
@sukumar794 (5047)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
30 Apr 07
It is really heartbreaking to say goodbye to your loved ones.It is rightly said that 'to part is to die a little.' this has been my experience.
@Corezz (1017)
• Netherlands Antilles
30 Apr 07
Well is hard to say to someone goodbye, especialy if you love that persone. I harad never been in this situation yet...But I've seen a lot of persons do it. The words, the kiss and goodbye...
@imalone (63)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
it already happens to me to let go that the one i love. I let him go.because all the pains that he gave me. that's all..
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
30 Apr 07
Ya thats really true. I had to do the same thing too. She got married about a year back. immagine the time she left with that tear. I really couldnt stand and neither could i faint. But trust me I still love her and she visits me in my dreams atleast once a week. No love since then. I really feel whats going on in your heart. But dont worry now you have a friend in the same boat too.
@alirana (297)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
Yeah it is 100% right. i have not experienced such before but i can feel how bitter it is to bear.
@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
30 Apr 07
Yes, it`s allways difficult...and all of us must try to save as much pain as it`s possible. But it`s very important to tell Good bye without any false promises. If you want to leave, then leave.Never play games like: i leave now, but may be i will come back tommorow... Wellcome aboard:-)
@wonderful1 (2076)
• China
30 Apr 07
I lived in my aunt's house before i was 8 years old.She is 15 years older than my mom.Now sometimes i will miss her very much. I feel very regetted when she was dying ,i couldnt go back to see her for last time. Dont leave some regrets when someone you loved is in the world.