To My Friends On Mylot

@fliffy555 (1045)
April 30, 2007 3:20am CST
I don't know if I will get penalised for this or what but to those people on my friends list (or those who are adding me now) would you please let me know if you reply to my discussions or not. I know a lot of people added me because of my avator and I am havin a clean up. Anyone who doesn't respond to my discussions I will be deleting as I feel it unfair that I do my best to reply to yours and you don't do the same. Please... let me know if you reply to my discussions here and I won't delete you. Im giving it a month. After that alot of people are going I think.
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11 responses
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
30 Apr 07
Hello,fliffy555,I think you will not get any penalty for deletion of friends,but i will be sad if i get deleted,I will try to reply to your discussions if I can ,but I will have more than 500 mylot discussions everyday,I will try my best and I hope I can reply to you,good luck.:)
@fliffy555 (1045)
30 Apr 07
of course not easy888 ive noticed you too reply to my discussions! i have stuck notify on for anyone on here so i know when you start a new discussion so i can push myself to answer peoples discussions who answer mine. i am just fed up of my 258 friends and only having about 20 loyal ones like your self. :D
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
30 Apr 07
Thanks.But do not expect I can reply all of yours...I will try when i see your discussion and i will do it if i have something to say.
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@fliffy555 (1045)
30 Apr 07
yes i know you cannot reply to all of them... but some of my friends have not replied to more than one... i know you reply to those you have something to say about... some people just add me and leave it as that... hence why i am havin a clean up
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• Indonesia
30 Apr 07
Ha..ha..ha..I see your point, your avatar would sure attract a lot of attention..especially from boys.. But to be honest I don't expect much from my friends list, cause I think it all ended up on the topic itself..Just like my case, maybe your friends don't share the same interest for the topic you've posted, I'm sure you've also had those moments to your friends topics.
@fliffy555 (1045)
30 Apr 07
most of my discussions are about mylot itself though?? surely that is a mutual interest between all mylotters? whether here for the money or friends?
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@iszo07 (473)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
Hi there, for me it's almost imposibble for users to reply to all discussion. Especially when it was more than one day old. I guess you might miss some discussion yourselves too..:)
@fliffy555 (1045)
30 Apr 07
its not that i want them to reply to all my discussions just one or two a month would make me happy... some of my friends i have heard from once and that was a private PM askin me sign up to a site under them... that annoys me
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@subha12 (18453)
• India
30 Apr 07
i very often reply to ur discussuon. but klet me tekl u, i have ound you very rarely to answer the discussions started by me.I have just today put the notification on for few of my friends so that i can know when u have started a discussion,
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@fliffy555 (1045)
30 Apr 07
thank you for replying i have noticed that you do reply... sorry for not replying much to yours... i will try to... i do go through about 5 pages of discussions my friends started when i log on... maybe i should go through a few more to find them. i will stick a notify on for you and anyone else who replies here. that is a good idea. thanks!
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@foxyfire33 (10009)
• United States
1 May 07
Honestly, do whatever it is that you feel you need to do. I haven't been as active as normal for the past couple weeks and I really don't know if I've answered any more of yours or not. I have some people on my list that don't start discussions and I rarely hear from them so I know how it is. I cleaned out some "friends" awhile back and nobody came down hard on me for it.
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@fliffy555 (1045)
1 May 07
foxyfire i wont be deleting you hun... i recognise you avator from some of my discussions... its those who added me to promote their referal links or those who just PM all the time asking personal questions really... or those who added me and have NEVER been in contact even though it says they are online nearly every day.
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@Bizziebod (3526)
5 May 07
Hi, well I try to respond to your discussions as much as I can. I usually try to go through and answer at least 1 discussion per week of my friends, I know it's not alot but I haven't got the time at the moment. Sometimes I find that some discussions I can't / are not of interest to me and that's not just specific to you.
@fliffy555 (1045)
6 May 07
Hey bizziebod... I have noticed that you reply to my discussions when you are online every now and then. i recognise your avator. and i thank you. i also apologise if i have not responded to many of yours yet... i have been in a new job working nearly 60 hours a week and rarely find time to come on here anymore except for weekends. but i will be going through discussions my friends have started in a minute so i will see if there are any by you. x
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@Bizziebod (3526)
6 May 07
No worries, I don't post a huge amount (although I've done 3 tonight) but usually I do that many in a week and do understand some might not be to everyone's tastes!
@fliffy555 (1045)
6 May 07
I know what you mean. I rarely respond it has taken my 5/6 months to get 600 posts... I post when I can. Some of my friends and me have nothing in common though and then they complain I dont respond to their discussions lol
• United States
1 May 07
Yes I do respond to the discussions that you post that interest me. There have been a couple that I didn't but I didn't really feel like I had much of value to add to them so I decided to keep my two cents to myself. By the by, I didn't add you because of your avatar. I added you because we seemed to always be ending up in the same discussions so it seemed like we had some of the same interests. lol
@fliffy555 (1045)
1 May 07
uniquenorthern.... another friend i wont be deleting... i recognise your name because ... well... its unique! lol... i know you reply to a lot of the same and my discussions... im only on about those who added me for a referal link or to ask me where i am from and what i do where i live... etc etc... those people creep me out when they havent even responded to one of my discussions
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• United States
1 May 07
thank you and I appreciate it. I know what you mean about the referral links but haven't had a problem with the PM messages and stuff like that yet. That would be extremely annoying and I can see how you would be getting pissed about it.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
4 May 07
fliffy, your friends in mylot has their own descretion in which posts we want to answer. what you are saying is a sort of blackmail for your information, telling your friends that you will delete them if they do not respond.i was not about to respond to your post for obvious reasons but i feel that i have to inform you that what you are saying is that all of us are unfair to you, don't you think that it is the other way around? some of your friends might not be responding because it also takes time for some of your postings to be answered.i see that you are still new here so be patient, if you are to delete me because of what i am saying then you should think again, everyone here has their own opinions and which you should learn to accept whether is acceptble to you or not.one should have an open mind if you get into discussions .especially, if you posted this kind of issue, you will be getting a lot of comments and you should be ready to accept them.and do not be so naive that a lot of us pick you as our friend because of your avatar, sorry kid, kindly wake up.if you still can't understand what i am saying then it is your choice whether to delete me or not.
@tambdy (1969)
2 May 07
Hey hunni, Dont delete me i would not get to see your lovely face each time i log on, how you today anyway what a lovely day it is here.
@fliffy555 (1045)
3 May 07
course i wont delete you babe. you have been one of the best friends i have made on here
@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
3 May 07
don,t answer to all of my friends discussion, like not all the friend of my list are replying even if I found the discussion good. Are you replying to people that are in your list? I'm sure that it can be month before you sometimes find a topic that you want to answer too :P Not sure that everyone ask you as a friend for your picture. I only delete people that didnt participate in mylot for 1-2 week. Because you never know witch topic they will like :P But anyways :P I know that when the list is too big, you want to do some clean up sometimes :P
@Writerbob (572)
• United States
1 May 07
I actually think that it's a good idea to personally message about replying to posts instead of the impersonal email notification, but about 90% of the messages I've sent to people who either requested to be in my friends list, or who accepted me as a friend, are unanswered. You however are in the 10% who are nice enough to return a reply to my messages, so thank you for that.