"Are you feeling so alone right now? How do you cope up with loneliness?".....

@anjoks (2084)
Philippines
April 30, 2007 3:39am CST
.... if yes, "you are not alone my friend". I'm feeling so lonely, empty and blue right now. Blame this to Celine Dion's song "all by myself" which i'm listening right now. haaaahhh!! What do you do when you feel like these? ...... myLot's been a lot of help to me right now but still.. :((
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9 responses
@mystery5 (351)
• India
30 Apr 07
I think alone and lonely are two different words completely. Alone is when you have no body near you, and most of the times, people enjoy being alone, the solitude and the peace that it brings with it. Lonely, on the other hand, is completely different. You could be in a crowd and still feel lonely. It happens when you feel that you have no body's shoulder to cry on, and no one to turn to for help. Sometimes we tend to isolate ourselves too - ie, we think we are lonely when actually our family and friends might be very willing to help. When you feel lonely, I think you just need to list down all the special gifts you received from your family and friends, and all the special things they've done for you. And then try to think of those people who have no one in the world. You'll feel better
• Malaysia
9 May 07
hmm...how do 1 cope with loneliness? i've no idea. to me, loneliness is one of the most horrible feeling ever and no one should ever go thru it :P no one wants to be lonely! i will usually try to get myself busy and will go out with someone, to help me overcome the loneliness..coz when i'm lonely, after i'm done brooding about it, i just don't wanna be alone..i hope you're not lonely anymore now. take care ;)
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
9 May 07
Yeah, i agree with you. If only we couldn't experience it anymore. (sigh) Its impossible i know but its up to us how we cope up with it, right? .. Loneliness still attacks me from time to time but em okay my friend. Take care you too. (",)
@lols189 (4797)
6 May 07
when i feel lonely i come on to mylot or i will go out and meet friends or family. there is nothing worse than feeling lonely anjoks
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
7 May 07
There is nothing worse than feeling lonely.... aawww, that hurts lols!! What can i say? it made a big impact to me. I agree with you, most terrible thing really. Anyway, nice seeing you here lols. Where is your sister by the way? Haven't seen him for a very long time now. Give my regards to her okay? Mwah. Take care u all. (",)
• Philippines
1 May 07
i always feel alone whenever im home. and im home right now so im feeling lonely now. i always feels like this at home because i feel like they dont understand me, not even my parents. i just listen to music to take my loneliness away.
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
2 May 07
Ey, what made you say that? What's wrong? We're here. I can listen, if you don't mind. (",)
@bindishah (2062)
• India
30 Apr 07
Its funny that listening to a son is making you feel lonely - coz whenever i feel lonely i listen to music. It soothes me and calms me down.
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
Well it just so happened that the lyrics of the song is very moving which i can relate with as of my present situation. Listening to music is very calming really, i agree with you. Don't you feel at one point get emotional when listening to a song? (",)
@jene1985 (227)
• Australia
30 Apr 07
well I feel lonely alot sometimes its good to have a pet I have a cat and I talk to her sometimes. I also like to cook and sit down and watch a favourite movie or listen to good uplifting music something with a beat to get you worked up sometimes cleaning is good too or going for a walk.
@iszo07 (473)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
Yep, sometimes I was feeling so lonely too. It usually happened due to my work in which sometimes I have just to give 100% concentration. I work as flash multimedia designer and have to work within tight timeframe to finish certain job/dateline. I'm a bit weird in sense of I don't like somebody to interupt me at all while I was working on flash development. I just took a break to have coffee and usually I would prefer to drink alone since I did not want any outside stories/news to distract my development...:) Luckily, I have cute kid at home. After work usually my feeling of loneliness just gone seeing his face..:)
@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
I listen some music, I play my guitar and sing along with the music..or I will sing my own song...
@rb200406 (1825)
• India
30 Apr 07
well, i am lonely most of the times.I try to talk to a friend or sit in the internet.or watch tv.Mostly try to do something that reduces my lonliness.