battered wife

I was to a battered wife ...run .. run like the wind...get out , your kids will be better off not seeing what he is doing to you ,it will make you and your children stronger in the long run,they ( your children)deserve better. I am now married to the love of my life and you would never know that he was not my children's real dad.i did though have to move 1000 miles away from their dad , but it was so worth it.you don't deserve this , nobody has the right to put their hands on another human being ,he does not own you ,you own yourself stand up for your right to be free .

I would leave and never return if not for me for my children. There is no reason at all to stay in this relationship. Children have as many problems as the battered wife and it lives with them all there life. Its best to show your children that you wont put up with this befavior and get out than to stay there because of them. Take them and run is what Id have to say. The children will thankyou for it.

The best thing to do is to leave an abusive husband before you die or make your self miserable.You can find another husband to help you financially or if your parents is close to you maybe they can watch your children so that you can work.

I think they have a right to LEAVE their husband BECAUSE of their children. My mother was beaten by my first / biological father, and she left him when I was 6 thankfully. I still remember the fear and despair I felt when they would fight. I still am so fearful when people get mad. I think she should leave to give her children a peaceful life.