how to deal with a broken heart?
May 3, 2007 11:28pm CST
It had been months and still I bear the pain of the loss of my recent relationship. It never ended well. I tend to divert my things int o other things yet i end up hangin' myself around. I want some ideas from you to help me get through. Join me in this discussion. Let's share our insights..
5 May 07
Let me begin with an example. If the roof of your house was leaking, would you start spending most of your time in other people's houses, pretending your house was alright? Would that solve the problem? Trying to divert the mind pretty much has the same effect. The leak only gets bigger! You need to spend a few days all by yourself, and come to terms with the situation. Love is never a one-sided affair. Love is about 'loving' a person for what they truly are, with their faults. If they can leave you, then they never truly loved you - and if you couldn't figure that they never truly loved you, then you never knew the real 'them' anyway. I hope you get what I mean. Forgive yourself for being sad, and just decide to get done with it. You need to give yourself the chance of dating other girls! Its a beautiful life out there, just go and enjoy it, and you'll never have negative thoughts ever enter your head!
• New York, New York
4 May 07
Unfortunately it hurts and it hurts a lot. Time heals all wounds, eventually the piain will be less and you will feel better. Many people say go out and keep your self busy but I know it is not an easy thing to do because your hurting and you don't feel like doing anything at all. Best of luck to you.
4 May 07
Hello jomboy23 Just let it flow, and try to find a lot of activity like go to the gym or hang out with your friends, it really help. And tell your self that you are deserve to have a better person. Stay with your friends or share your story can make you fell better. cheer up jomboy23, life is go on. God bless you