Do you like larger girls?? i need some opinions on this please.....

United States
May 4, 2007 8:17pm CST
this question i guess is more aimed towards the men, but women i would like your opinions as well.... i have heard that 1 out of 10 men prefer larger girls and would rather be with a larger girl, what do you think about this? Men do you like larger women? my friend who is recently single, a single mom is a larger girl and is afraid no man would want her due to her size...what do you think? and to the larger girls out there: is it easy for you to get dates? get a boyfriend? even though you are large?
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@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
5 May 07
Define large, I'm not too fond of skinny girls and would rather have them to have some meat but when they are simply obese till an extent you could roll them around pretty much I'd say it goes too far. Just saying large though doesn't say much these days, I've seen girls of about 65kg at 1.70m call themselves large because they went comparing themselves to models which would be like what, 40kg at the same height?
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• United States
5 May 07
my friend is about 5 foot 5 inches and about 195 pounds if that helps :)
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@Foxxee (3651)
• United States
5 May 07
195lbs? Girl, she has nothing to worry about. There are good looking men out there dating someone a lot bigger then that. Some men even like them around 300lbs. So your friend just needs self esteem.
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@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
5 May 07
That's not bad at all. I don't think she has anything to worry about. There are plenty of women out there who think they are grotesque when in reality, they are absolutely beautiful women who just don't fit into a size 10.
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
5 May 07
Attraction for me is clearly toward larger women. However my definition of larger is not what you mean. I prefer women that are at least 5' 7". I am not so hung up on her weight as I am the overall look of her and personality. If she is overweight, tall and very feminine she will get my attention. I am not attracted to obese women but that of course is relative to her height. I am not attracted however to thin women. Ultra-thin is a real turn off for me. I would think that if your friend would make herself available there would be plenty of men that would be interested
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
5 May 07
We have a phrase: "The men like to go out with mini-women, but prefer to come home with large one" Miss Maxy is desired:-) Even just for it that it` s cuddly and the men like it :-P
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
5 May 07
I can only give my opinion based on my experience. I'm a small woman...5'3" and 105ish pounds. My s/o seems perfectly fine with that BUT based on his past relationships and crushes (and yes even "innocent" chatting during our relationship) I suspect he has a secret preference for larger women. I don't think it's strong enough that he HAS to have someone larger but it's probably similar to how some men prefer blondes but will date brunettes also as long as they get along well. I do know with mine, it always seemed like he really "enjoyed" that stage of pregnancy when I was rounding out but looked more pudgy than pregnant. Based on that I would completely believe that statistic and actually I wouldn't be surprised if it was actually high than 1 in 10.
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
5 May 07
To be honest,i don't.But my friend does.He says a bit larger girls are more sexier in his eyes than zero-sized ones.We are totally opposite in our liking for a date. Well,anyway large or thin,i believe when it comes to settling down most men prefer down to earth women.And larger women can earn some brownie points by being kinder,nicer and sober and just be herself.
@vokey9472 (1486)
• United States
6 May 07
I think it really depends on your attitude. I am a big girl and always have been, yet I never had a problem getting guys. I have always found it really easy to get dates and boyfriends. As a matter of fact, once I was allowed to date, I never went more than a few months without a boyfriend and that was by choice. I had a rule about allowing myself at least 2 months to make sure I was really over someone before starting a new relationship. I just always believed and still believe that I am a very attractive person no matter my size. I also never apologized for who I am. When I went out, I was me. I ate real meals, none of that stupid "dating" food for me. If I wanted a steak and potatoes I ate steak. I never ordered salad and water. I mean, seriously, who really wants to date a bird?? Tell your friend that a real man, someone who is worthy of her, will not care about her size. He will think that she is beautiful and kind and he will treat her like a queen. Any man who is more concerned with what size his lady is, isn't worth having.
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• United States
6 May 07
Vokey you said it best.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
5 May 07
If im going to rate for that i think usually males are physical in nature , which means they always go for what attracts them most that is the physical appearance of the female, so i would rather say that she must lose some weight i guess..what do you mean by larger, is it fat or structure of her body?
@tholitz (1127)
• Philippines
5 May 07
No offense meant for larger women, but in my own opinion slim mer woman can easily get or catch the attention of a guy. In a world where women are picture as a tall, slim with sexy body(look at posters, models, tv commercial,etc.) guys will always look at this as their perfect girl. But of course, men do not look only in the outside appearance, what is more important is the total personality of the woman.
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@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
5 May 07
I am a large size woman and I have never had any problems getting a date. i am in a good relationship now and my BF loves me just the way I am. It is me who has an issue with the extra pounds I have put on since being with him. I mean I was big when we first started seeing each other but I have put on 20 pounds during our relationship. He's happy with me just the way I am. Beauty is only skin deep. And it is in the eyes of the beholder....
@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
5 May 07
I don't like larger girls, but a normal size and most especially one who will love me with the whole of her heart.
• Malaysia
5 May 07
My roommate happen to be one of the larger size and she is worrying about getting bf as most of the girls around her already has one. Well, after start working for a year, she has found her prince charming. I notice that she changed a little bit after start working compare to the time when we study together, ie she wear make-up, she wear clothes that matches well, all the charisma adds its charm. I am happy for her and i wish the same happen to your fren. ;P
• Malaysia
5 May 07
i seriously think that every man has their own taste.. and you can only make assumptions .. right? ...i don't think i'll like larger women.. as i think they're more superior than i am.. and i scared to be controlled by them.. haha..i believe not many girls are large in asian countries.. we asians do prefer smaller girls.. i mean.. the one that maybe a little smaller than our own size.. we just don't prefer a girl bigger than us.. i think west countries are more open minded.. it's better to talk more on the inner than the outer.. do you agree? how can we judge someone from their size.. that's not fair.
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• India
7 May 07
i am a boy and i think that mostly boys like the girls who is long and having a good figure and i also wanna a girl who is long you think that boys dont like the long girls but you are wrong boys mostly wanna to make frien to agirl who is long but this is not for that boy whose height is low .. if youi know the bollywood star then you may know about the aiswarya she is long and all the boy wanna a date of her all the long heroins like tabu , priyanka ,lara dutta all the star are long and all the boys wanna to make them so if you are long then it is not a problem as i also like along girl if no one love you then tell me i will ready to marry you ......just joking but it can be true
@castleghost (1304)
• United States
6 May 07
I have to tell you I am 6'4 and weigh under 200 lbs. My girlfriend is 5'7 and weighs 220 lbs. She is a larger size girl. I love her for who she is on the inside as well as the outside.I want to be able to hold on to her when I wrap my arms around her. With a skinner girl you don't get that option. As long as your friend has a great personality her size really doesn't matter. There are guys out there that do enjoy a larger size women.
@dbeast (1495)
• India
5 May 07
i doesnt matter if they are large or small or even minature.as long as a guy likes a girl id doesnt even matter how she looks.my friends are of all shapes and sizes and i dont mind at all and even the persons i date it doesnt matter.all that matters is whether i like them or not.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
5 May 07
I prefer a woman that is healthy looking, I don't like the very thin look. Those models you see, like a size 0 is a big turn off. A larger woman is more sexier.
• India
5 May 07
This is a very personal choice and since different people like different sizes we all find our soul mate sometime or the other .. thats the beauty of God's creation .. he has made a partner for every type of person .. fat slim ... tall stout .. dark white ... humble arrogant .. rich poor .. so many kinds of people but everyone finds his/her pair ... so there is no sure thing who will like what ... it all just happens .. love is blind they say so logic might not work at times .. thats i why i read so many people here saying that he/she is overweight than their spouse but still are happy cos in love we learn to respect our differences and love unconditionally !
@abhish70 (54)
5 May 07
Yes I love to be with larger womaen as described by you , they really fascinates me as I like to feel the larger woman. I don't like skiny woman.I don't think that any man will not like your friend just because of her size, there are many man like me who just love woman of large size and good weight as it makes them more attractive.
@federickp (607)
• India
5 May 07
This is a question of likliness. SO that depends from person to person. Say like i love black forest cake, but its not necessary that you also love it. As far as i think, girls attract men by their curvy figure, seducing smile and other body features. So if you are not an attractive women you will find it hard ( and not immpossible) to attract some men. ALso there are many who only love large girls. SO it depends from person to person. Just wait and give time for that person to come in your life. Happy Mylotting!
@Viralg (66)
• India
5 May 07
what do u mean larger in terms of??? plz specify???? if u mean height thn i would say its crap height never mattters what matters is da nature!!!!