if u were to choose between....

India
May 5, 2007 8:43am CST
if u love somebody and want to get married but ur parents oppose ur relationship, what will u do?if u were to choose between ur family and the person u've love whom would u choose and why? i'm not sure how i'm going to face that situation in my life....hope i get some nice suggestions to pursue my parents and handle everything smoothly....
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4 responses
@luay673 (153)
• United Arab Emirates
5 May 07
I've been to that kind of situation and i married the one i love. When my mom found out that i got a girl friend of a diffrent nationality, she started to search for a lady that i could marry immediatly. but since im out of my country and GF is with me, it's a bit easy for us to be married where we are staying. I mean we are already on our legal age and parent consent is no longer applicable. I let them know that im planning to get married but still my mom tries to find a way and search for a lady for me. but then again, i'm still lucky coz my parents are not that much strict that they will not kick me out of the family tree if i will not follow them. I married the one i love. Little by little my mom tries to like her as well and vice versa.
• India
5 May 07
Congratulations for getting married to the person u loved.. hope ur mom like ur wife as much as u do and accepts her soon into the family.i'm sure ur family wil b able to c wat u've seen in ur wife to get married....all the best!
• India
5 May 07
I definitely will chose my parents. They are the ones who brought to this level. They have the highest preference. So i will never think of going against them. And speaking of love, if i really love a person my family will never object me because they understand me and believe that my choice will be the most correct one. What about you?
• India
5 May 07
i wud rather convince my parents rather than go against them and regret all my life and live in guilt
@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
5 May 07
I will analize the situation carefully, but at last i will listen my heart. My parents` ideas about the life and the relations are completely opposite of mine.
• India
5 May 07
thanq for the response.but will u b able to leave ur parents for ur love?
@mashimaro (1095)
• Philippines
5 May 07
Mine is...surely I will consider my parents comment about the relationship I have but I will analyze it later..but for some reason..ourselves has the right to plan to our life, we are going to make our own decision. But they are our parents they do what's best for us, If I were to choose of course mine's decision because I too what's best for me..And I will prove to them that my decision is right.