mend a broken heart!

heart - a broken heart
@nurhoney (1123)
Philippines
May 5, 2007 10:19am CST
We hate to be fooled around, get dumped, have our heart broken and cry about it but in this life, we all go through this. At first, we thought that we had a perfect love but as time past, it wasnt meant for us to be together....things wouldnt just work out all the time the way we expected it to be. We just need to face it and get over it...move on with life. Have you had your heart broken? Whats your story? How did you mend your broken heart.
8 responses
@so3869 (7)
• Hong Kong
6 May 07
I have it for several times. My heart has never been mended. I am having a girlfriend but still I remember those sad moments. Although they are not as painful as before but they still make me cry sometimes in the night. I don't think a broken heart can be fully mended. We can only feel less painful through the passage of time. A new love will speed up this process, I believe.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
6 May 07
awww...wish you will find the right person for you...thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
6 May 07
"i was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them again and tell myself that the mended whole is as good as new. What is broken is broken---and i'd rather remember it as it was at its best than men it and see the broken places as long as i live."
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
6 May 07
people do things differently...your a strong person.
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
just recently,i gave up our friendship to give way to love. I gambled and placed our friendship as my bet. Sadly we ended up as losers... Our love was lost, as well as the friendship.It would have been better if did the other way around. Ouch ! I am still trying to recover from my loss. Its hard...BUt im trying to do my best...
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
well it was a good thing that you tried to give way to love coz we all wont know what would happen in the future...its part of life. thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
I am now mending a broken heart. I've realized that love is the most wonderful and painful thing in this world. As of now I'm really doing my best to move on, it's very difficult but I have to be strong. The things that really keeps me busy for now... well... exercise in the morning, yoga at night, shopping every weekend, hanging out with friends, reading books, sleeping and I really mean sleep as if no time to sleep tomorrow hehehe... I know time can heal me. This experience taught me a lot and have no regrets after all.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
well sis...all you need to do is try to have things that would make you occupied and not think about the experience you had...enjoy your life and be happy as you go along with it...love you sis! GOD BLESS.
• India
29 Jun 07
Sad to say, there is no magic to mending a broken heart. You can hate all men/women and tell yourself you’ll never fall in love again. But it won’t make you feel any better. Don’t try to find someone to fill her place immediately trying to forget her. That won’t help you and you’ll only end up hurting someone else.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
you have a point there...some people tend to look for another person to love to cover up the heartache he/she is feeling, which isnt good...thanks for sharing.
@laila675 (528)
• United Arab Emirates
6 May 07
that's true mending a broken heart is a difficult tasks. specially with your first love. when it happened to me i always have this question on my mind "WHY IT HAPPENED? WHAT HAVE I DONE WRONG?" but would you believe i didn't cry at all coz i hold on to my pride like by telling myself "It's his lost not mine". how i mend it i kept myself busy, i always go with my cousins that are near my place. Good thing is that i have cousins with whom i can hang around as i don't have any sister. I got friends but they are far from me. You know when i cried? when i found out after 3 years that he got married and got a 3 year old daughter. that really hurts so much coz he did not even had the guts to tell me the truth which is what i only ask for. that was the past, so i still have my life and got someone who loves me back. this is the life
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
6 May 07
thats good, we are the same...must be strong...thanks for sharing.
@kcrysea (196)
• Philippines
6 May 07
ive been through that many times, there's someone whom i loved most and thought that he's the guy that ill be marrying soon. He moved to Isabela bcoz of his work and he visits me every month. valentines day when he called and said he was having a problem and i dont have to worry about him bcoz he will be back soon. I have the feeling that the relationship will end so soon. Then I just found out the he got a girl pregnant. I was hurt but still hoping at that time. But waiting came to an end when my aunt told me that he got married already... That was more than 4 years, i could say that ive moved on and he was one of the person who taught me how to be strong... ^__^
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
6 May 07
long distance relationship is kinda hard...experiences makes you a better person...thanks for sharing.
• United States
5 May 07
I never really have had my heart broken because I never let myself completly fall for someone and held my feeling inside until I met my husband. I have been hurt but not by true love and I just made myself go out with friends and try to move on.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
6 May 07
thats good thing...thanks for sharing.
@edigital (2710)
• United States
5 May 07
A broken heart cannot be mend. It is just a consolation that you can mend broaker heart. It is like a glasswear, once broken cannot be mend. As it is human heart so we carry it for rest life with broken heart. If you think what happened was my fate then you will feel your heart not broken, so be brave enough and do not worry for broken heart, think it is always fresh then you will feel fresh.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
5 May 07
you can mend a broken hear by accepting it and letting go...to be able to love again after a heartache means you have mended your broken heart from the past relationship...thanks for sharing.