What is it with men and the remote control???

@woobie (88)
United States
May 5, 2007 10:16pm CST
I don't understand what the big deal is with the remote control. When my husband is home, he insists on being in charge of the remote. I don't understand why he won't share. I get tired of asking him to please turn down the volume or would he please change the channel to see what else is on. Then he gets mad because he has to use the remote for something. I just don't get it.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
6 May 07
A friend of mine had the same problem with her husband, she went to radio shack and bought a cheap remote control and set it to the tv so now they both have one and when the volume is too high she just lowers it herself.
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@woobie (88)
• United States
11 May 07
That is a good idea -- I'll have to think about getting my own remote!!!
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
11 May 07
Thank you for the BR.
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@woobie (88)
• United States
11 May 07
You are very welcome, Howard. :@)
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@nicolecab (923)
• United States
11 May 07
i will never understand this myself. I can be in the middle of watching a show or a movie and if my husband comes in to watch tv he just expect me to hand over the controler. i can not stand it!!!
@woobie (88)
• United States
11 May 07
My husband is actually pretty good about this one -- he will be polite enough to ask if its okay to change the channel if I am watching something that he doesn't like. He just won't hand over that darn remote once its in his hands.
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• United States
11 May 07
yep once he has it its his. i just also have to deal with haveing to change the channel in the middle of me watching something. I dont get it we have 3 tvs in the house and they want the controler to the one your watching it never fails.
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• United States
15 May 07
i feel your pain babyboo!!! Now we just need to come up with a way to get them to pick one of the tvs that are free and not the only one that you are watching!!!
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 May 07
i think, i gotta do with them being controlled remotely by women and they want purgation through the small box!! lol.. jokes apart, most men do that. i have noticed that mken are more keen on changing channels than women who generally would prefer to stick to a few ones. for that reason, perhaps, men want to keep the control in their hands. however, i donot have any problem in this issue. i live with my parents and my father being very sweet would never want to be in charge.
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@woobie (88)
• United States
11 May 07
You are so right!!! When I start to watch something, I want to see how it ends. He gets tired of something half-way through the show and wants to watch something else. That drives me so crazy.
11 May 07
My Dad always had the remote control My ex husband always had the remote control My partner always has the remote control I guess they will never change.
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@woobie (88)
• United States
11 May 07
LOL!! Thanks for your comment. :@)
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
6 May 07
I believe its a man thing,I think there is a little alien in there that makes a man feel like he is in charge of something when he has the tv remote,its really the only thing that he can make do something and it listens right off, see he dosnt get to be in charge of to many things at home so that is his only power a little tiny box that he can boss around. lol
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@woobie (88)
• United States
6 May 07
This is so true!!! I never really thought about it, but he doesn't get to be in charge of very amny things around the house. LOL Thanks for your comment.
• United States
7 May 07
This is so funny. My dad was like this and so was my grandma though. Fortunatly my husband isn't and he will ask me if there is something I want to watch first. Unless it is poker and he will insist on watching poker but thats ok I like it too. I guess I have learned to be very flexible since he works so hard and I am home all day then I let him have the tv time at nite.
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@woobie (88)
• United States
11 May 07
I wish we liked watching more of the same shows. That would make things a whole lot easier!!!