guy best friend hates me...

@nurhoney (1123)
Philippines
May 7, 2007 5:01am CST
I have this guy bestfriend for 3 years, I basically knows his secrets in life. We are close and we talk a lot through chatting coz he is in china and Iam in Philippinesbut since I had a bf, all things didnt turn out like it used to be. I told him about my bf and that I was marrying him, he just sent me an offline message that he is cutting off our friendship. That was shocking. I didnt know what has got into him? He didnt even gave explainations why? I didnt do anything wrong or said anything bad to him. Iam so confused. Can you guys put your views on this.
1 response
@pelo26 (1553)
• Philippines
14 May 07
I think he has feelings for you honey. How close were you before? Did he ever made his move on you? Just give him time... Maybe he's just hurting and shocked with the news. I'm sure he doesn't mean those things. Better yet, write him a note to tell him that you'll still be there, good ole honey friend whenever he feels the need to confide or just talk with you. Congratulations on your wedding. Cheers! Happy Posting :)
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
14 May 07
Thats what my hubby says that my guy friend has feelings for me. We were close and he shared his problems and secrets with me...he was like a brother to me. I didnt have any clue that he feels more for me than just being friend. If he did express his feelings for me, it wont work out coz I only see him as a friend/brother...nothing more than that. I do feel bad about this whole thing.