what is love? Responsibility or Feeling?

China
May 8, 2007 1:24am CST
I've been with my first love for 5 years,and since recently i had a crush on another boy, i began to think what love is actually? my 5 years with him seems like a kind of habit much more than real love! HE is very nice,it's just i can't control my emotion to love someone else,i wanna leave him ,but don't wanna be irresponsible!So, what is love really about?Responsility or Feeling?
3 responses
@betchai (140)
• Philippines
8 May 07
If you don't love the guy, then tell it straight to him. By that, you are responsible.
• China
8 May 07
It's not that i don't love my boyfriend any more, it's just i can't figure out whether i love him or not!My crush on the other boy is just a crush,which is quite clear.but i really need to know whether i love my boyfriend or not,so that i could make my decision.
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I am of the same page as yours.. I also have a bf 5 years now.. he is so nice but it seems like sometimes I wanna break up with him for some reasons, but then, I dont wanna be irresponsible instead... You know the song unfaithful? its just like that.. I dont wanna be a murderer.. lol
@lovesu (142)
• China
8 May 07
love are first feeling ,then it turn to responsility.