what do u do when u r hurt by the one u love the most??

@hi1234 (175)
India
May 8, 2007 1:54am CST
hi...friends, this thing must be happening with u all also,its universal. what do u do then?how do u react?when u r hurt by ur loved one do u leave her away,do u fight strongly,or stop talking??for me its very hard,i cant remain away from her even for an hour,thts my maximum limit!!whats ur poll??isnt it hard for u too??
6 responses
• Philippines
8 May 07
yah it also happened to me.. but i make sure that we talk seriously about what happened,, i let him explain all his side and after that i ask all the things that i do not like but make sure that you talk in a right way not blaming each other.. I advice also that atleast one of you must learn how to put your PRIDE down..
@easyzheng (666)
• China
8 May 07
Become mad at him and shout and scream, then several day passed without a word between us two. That's what was happening when I was hurt by the one I love most. Then after some days, he would manage something to please me and I gradually forget about the hurt he gave me. Such things occur now and again, always the hurt comes easily but the pain goes slowly.
• Philippines
8 May 07
i just let my anger pass for a few days and i always find forgiveness in my heart
• Philippines
8 May 07
i have been experiencing pain these days... recently, my ex-boyfriend hit and cursed me from throwing the perfume he gave me into the kitchen sink... i know, what i did was terrible because he gave it to me and it was so special because it was his valentine's day gift for me... so i shifted my emotion by saying, "i'm just kidding... it's too expensive and you gave it to me... i wouldn't definitely throw it..." then i laughed... but he started shouting at me... i continuously uttered sorry but he never did give any excuses... he asked me to get out/leave his condo or else he would be asking the security to put me out of the building... that did scare me... not only that... he even throw my cellphone charger towards me... specifically hitting my chest... that did ache... i cried for hours... the things is... it's better to stop loving if you're already feeling hurt... move on... put an end to your communication despite difficulties of letting go... one should have self-realization... go on with life and never take revenge... don't fix yourself for a reason to impress or put the guy on jealousy but for the sake of oneself... plan incredible things for yourself and your family... anyway, he is not your world... you need not to rotate around him... life still goes on and on... that's what i believe. i'm just sharing... =)
@gasmas100 (588)
• India
8 May 07
communication is essential in any and every relation i have evey got into. I believe that it is of prime importance to share and say whateve u feel and wish to to the opposite-even if i may not sound too good or something that they may or were not expeting. its not worth bottling up ur feelings and keeping questions unanswered, ieven if u know the truth may be far bitter...but u need to face i someday, somewhere, sometime. I would dwell into it with reasons and logically analyse it b4 commenting .
• India
8 May 07
first i will think wat happ to her and y she hurt me that words and i will clear y she used that words to hurt me and finally i will wait for call and i will excuse her.