When love's beyond it all
Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
May 8, 2007 4:22am CST
I am sure that most of you have been in love at some point of your lives, and probably the whole thing has come along with plenty of difficulties due to many circumstances such as the other person being taken, work, etc. However, i think that when love is real, it always goes beyond, and even if it doesn't end up happening for you to be with that person, that love stays there, no matter what happens. When you reach that level of love and comprenhension, complicity...when at that level everything is so perfect, then love goes beyond all, even when it is impossible that you marry and form a family, for instance. You will still love that person no matter what, until the day that you die, even if years pass and your brain focuses on different things, every time you look back or something reminds you of that person, you will smile and those feelings will flourish again. Have you ever felt like this? have you ever reached that level of love? so intense that being with that person stops being the most important thing anymore...I have once, and no matter how much you suffer, I wouldn't change it for anything.
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8 May 07
Yes I was in the same situation too and no matter how much heartache and difficulties it brough me, I wouldn't change it for the world because it gave me 2 beautiful daughters. Now that I am alone and no longer with my husband, I still can recall a lot of things with a smile. Life and love is meant to teach as a lesson and we are with certain people at certain points in our life for very good reasons.
8 May 07
Yea, I have been to the level you mentioned. We were in love with eachother from our school days. But we were intrested on different career. He was to be doctor and I was never intrested in his career. And when time came.. he move abroad for the continuation of his study and I was supposed to move next country. But after he left I just found out that how impossible is it for me to live without him. I thought for a while and decided..I would switch my career to his so that we would be together..and that was it. I made the descision and now we are together. And I'm glad till today that I took that discision.
8 May 07
I like to think that I have reached this level of loving. However, I am not really sure. You see, I have not seen the other person again after our break-up. So I have not tested this feeling I have for him now. I think it is easier to get over the pain, the bitterness, the sadness if you never see the person again. Then you can move on to a higher level of love, or so you may think. You can communicate with him again and be "friends" again, which was what has happened to us. I started to feel good about him again, loved him again. But how much of this will remain real when we see each other again? Will all the hurt and pain come rushing back at the site of him? I don't know. Right now I may say that will not happen, but there is no certainty. Of course I could never hate him. That never happened so I am sure this will not happen. But when I see him, will I be full of love for him? I do not really know.