Much better today

@cherhost (1073)
United States
May 9, 2007 11:16pm CST
Thank you to all of you who said nice things to me and have thrown out ideas to keep my busy. I really appreciate it. I feel better today and suppose the next days will get better. Of course we will have our days but hey thats what it is like to one of us. I also wanted to tell you all that I have a friend (thought was a friend) who has just left her hubby before he left... needless to say he never showed up to leave with his guys.... and now I am putting it all together. He is with her and she has been lying to me. Here I am worried about his health or life... and there she is lying to me. I think people like that deserve all that they get when they get caught. It is funny because a few months overseas does not compare to year in jail. Oh and she is pregnant too... go figure... she is really making a great life for her child. I had my kid while he was gone the last time. I hold no pity for her... but I do understand all of you who are pregnant while your spouse is gone. Thanks for listening...
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@elisa812 (3033)
• United States
10 May 07
Wow, I can't believe what some people are willing to risk, how awful! I'm glad that you're feeling better! I think we must have switched places or something, cause today I got all depressed and keep crying randomly! lol Oh well, I guess we just have to take it one day at a time...
@cherhost (1073)
• United States
10 May 07
hey you! I am so sorry it is not a good day for you. I really wish I could just run over to your house and help out. It is hard... really it is. I wish there was something else we can do. But that is why they call us the silent ranks. Really honestly if you want to excahnge numbers or even email addresses just message me... I hope you get big smiles on your face soon! Take care of yourself... and as for that girl I know people are so stupid! But not my life that goodness.
@elisa812 (3033)
• United States
11 May 07
Thanks so much for your kind words! I'm feeling better now today. After I posted that message yesterday and was all depressed, my husband called me out of the blue! Apparently he was on a night shift, so he had some time to call me during my dinner time, lol. After that, I was on top of the world the rest of the night! hehe If you don't mind, I may try sending you a PM (I've never sent one before, haha) I'm not living on the base while he's gone, so it's sort of hard not having anyone around who really understands. And of course feel free to let me know if you ever need to talk too! :)
@mamasan34 (6522)
• United States
12 May 07
Cher, I am sad for you, knowing your husband is away on deployment. I know your pain! I am a military wife also and I have done a deployment last year and he is leaving again to go next month. If you need someone to talk to just email me or whatever! It is hard to deal with, but I recently got a part time job knowing that he is going to be leaving and I need something to do while he is gone, not to mention the kids and the house cleaning..oh the house cleaning! LOL, well, take care honey and keep your chin up! Lets pray that time will go fast!
@cherhost (1073)
• United States
12 May 07
Agh! How many more people are they deploying? I just thought that since he was from one of the most rapid deploying bases here that they would calm everything else down. What a thought huh. Well I am sorry he is leaving again. I sometimes wish that I can just let mine go and have all the others say so that they will be happy. I can do it. My husband and I have a very strong bond where NOTHING would ever comme between us. So him being gone right now is just a stepping stone in life. But I would love you get a job but my kid is only 2 and I can not really get her in daycare... well let me know how you are doing from time to time.... I am here if you need anythign too.
• United States
11 May 07
Glad you're having a better day today. Yeah, there are good days and there are bad days. I don't know about you but the first week my husband left, everything started to go wrong..mix-up in bills, overpaid for something, did not pay for something, plumbling problems, car didn't want to start, etc, etc. It all happened on the first week! Arrgghh!! Definitely Murphy's Law. Such a stressful week but once all that was sorted out, things got better. I don't know how your friend's hubby is going to be able to get away with this. That's really irresponsible of him.
@cherhost (1073)
• United States
11 May 07
Hello! Wow that really was a bad week. It always happens that way... everytime my hubby leaves for anywhere the dog gets fleas... then I have to bomb the house. It is kind of funny! Anyhow... about my friend... I dont know about you but I hope he gets busted. I did find out more info. He is with her and all that so atlease he is ok. But my hubby told me not ot talk to them... and that they are not allowed in his house... there was a ton more but basically it went to the way he feels as a military member. Take care! It means a ton that you are responding to me... just becauses it means there are people out there who know what it is like! Thanks!