forGive and Forget
May 10, 2007 1:10am CST
what wiLL you do if ur father who once hurt you physicaLLy because you confronted her mistress,slaps u,grab ur neck,pulled ur hair and left you and ur 3 siblings with ur mom just to live with her mistress who had 3kids now admits their fauLt..and asked you to give them money to start their life because their so down and promising you to leave her other woman but he want those 3kids to stay with him..will u give her money bec.u pity him and his ur father?will u forget what he had done to you?will you believe with his promises that he always broke?will u trust him this time after what he had done to u and ur mom?will u give him another chance?..i'm in this situation now and the first time i heard the news that he is sick and he almost beg just to eat i cried and feel sorry bout him and pitied him i even convinced my sisters to visit him but i didnt know that he alraedy had 3kids with that woman coz i only knew before i went abroad that he had 2kids. that thou he admits his fault he cant change his life for better.that he will continue to make us believe that his going on a rough road but in reality his doing all these things for the sake of his other family..that us(his real family),the family that he ignored and condemned will be the one saving him in his hardships because we have a better life and we can help him.we give him lots of chances just to change but he forsaken us..we laready forgive what he had done to us leaving us and neglecting his responsibilties and putting the burden on my mom's shoulder but we can't forget the pain and the time we had to struggle just to move forward.. iF your me what wiLL you do???
• United Arab Emirates
10 May 07
it's a very difficult situation you have now. i only see your story in the movies. i don't mean anything but your family is though specially your mom. about your dad, i know it's very hard to forgive and forget. but remember this only God knows what your father has done to you and your family. and for us, no matter how difficult it will be, we have to forgive and forget and God will do the rest.
• Hong Kong
10 May 07
yes its very difficult and if you will hear my Life story its like a novel or a movie..other dont think this thing exist but it is and i experience it,sometimes it makes me laugh that with all this trials that ive gone through i can still laugh and live my life the way i want it.lots of hardships,struggles just to move forward and forward and ignored my hurt feelings..the pain is still here no matter how hard i tried to forget it but i want to help him as well..i just hope everything will be fine
• Hong Kong
10 May 07
yes its hard to forgive but his my father and i dont want to live my life full of anger..but i dont want to tolerate him too by helping him with his issues bout the other familY because i have to consider my mom too and i guess i just have to accept it..i hope i can make it ..