Art Of A Good Marraige

India
May 10, 2007 7:38am CST
hi fndz...here i came with da topic Art of A Good Marriage... if any of u r very soon getting married...i suggest u to read it definitely....as it tells u da art of making a successful married life...... Happiness in Marriage is not something that just happens. A Good Marriage must be created. In Marriage the little things are the big things. It is never being too old to hold hands. It is remembering to say "I Love U" atleast once a day. It is no time taking the other for granted. It is having a mutual sense values and common objectives. It is standing together facing the world. It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family. It is doing things for each other, not in the attidute of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy . It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstration of gratitude in thoughtful ways. It is having capacity to forgive and forget. It is common search for the good and beautiful. It is establishing a relationship independence is equal,dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal. Atlast....... It is not marrying a right partner ,it is being right partner. Hope u all will like it.........
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• India
10 May 07
I wont believe in marriage.I never seen a couple 100% happy with their relation. Many of them think if i choose another person my life will be happy.
• India
11 May 07
May be u hav seen only those cases.....but therez also other side of a coin.....get exposed do dat dear friend...then u'll know wat is "MARRIAGE"....
• United States
11 May 07
I understand what you are saying and yes a lot of people do think that way. Those are the people that end in divorce because they think they need another person to make them happy. You must be happy first in order to find true love and be happy in a relationship. I was always happy by myself I didn't need another person to make my life complete, but now that I have my husband I can't see life in the future with out him. I can say we are truely happy with our relationship, we laugh, tell each other we love each other everyday at least once a day, we communicate and our love just keeps getting stronger everyday. The only thing I would change about our relationship is that he was here instead of deployed, but that is what he has to do.
• United States
10 May 07
Wow I really like this and I do believe this is true. My husband and I are always doing these things. Maybe it's because he is deployed and we know that at any moment something could happen to me or him you never know. We always tell each other I love you even if we are going to the store. We do things that we don't mind doing even if we don't like them we do them because we love each other and that is what makes the other happy. I think communication is a big thing and I think with out that there could be major problems. We don't fight that much if at all because my oldest daughter gets mad at us and tells us to stop but we discuss everything and make a decision together.
• India
10 May 07
Thank u so much for ur response....I am happy dat u like it....Thank u once again
• India
10 May 07
vow its really nice,good and g8.thanks for sharing with us frd
• India
10 May 07
thank u.......hope it will be helpful 4 u dear
• India
14 May 07
hey info dear, these are very helpfull, thanks ra..