I longed for a BABY...

longed for pregnancy - longing
@add_im (2712)
Philippines
May 10, 2007 7:37pm CST
Hello dear friends, I've been married for almost 6 yrs now and still we haven't got to the point having children, just yet. My question is, specially to all the mothers out there...what can you all suggest and opinions given for me to get pregnant and does it work if I have to take some pills for pregnancy fertilization? Please mothers out there, I beg for your suggestions and opinions. Thanks in advance.
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@jencai (3415)
• Philippines
11 May 07
I'm a single person right now, I mean I'm not yet married to anyone but I have my boyfriend with me. I understand how you feeL. I think it's the baby who will make every women feel complete. Don't worry I'm sure you'll have them too soon. You will need alot patience and Trust. Maybe it's not yet the right time for the both of you to have your own children, who knows? Probably, God has a better idea for you and your family. Try to consult some specialists regarding this matter. They may help you understand your situation somehow. Goodluck!
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
12 May 07
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Yes, I know God has a much better plan for my life even has a greater plan for my pregnancy, someday. I just have to be strong enough and wait on God's perfect time patiently. Thank you for your suggestion and shared thoughts. God bless!
@mflower2053 (3227)
• United States
11 May 07
have you been to the dr yet so they can check you out? I did have trouble for 4 years then I went to the dr. I had to chart my tempature for 3 months and then was put on clomid. I was lucky enough to get pregnant on the first round. You really need to go to the dr they will help you.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Yeah, I did try getting a check up to our friend Dr. I think 1 yr ago and she did give me prescriptions for me to take, like Vitamins and Folic Acid...but since my husband was not here those times, I decided to take them when the time he arrives but sad to say, I have lost my prescription letter and we're not able to go back to the Dr. because we have been very busy doing some travelling work together. Thank You!
@stacy624 (2777)
• Canada
11 May 07
Hey there Kiddo .....I am sorry that you are having a bit of troubles but what I can honestly suggest is don't think about it and just relax. Sometimes when we want it to happen it seems like it never does but hang in there also I would just check in with the doctor to see if you don't have any medical issues that may cause a delay. I want to wish you the best and hope you will keep me posted Best wishes Stacy
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Thank you stacy for your advice. Yeah, the only best thing I can do for right now is to relax myself and wait for the time patiently to conceive a child. I will wait patiently in God's perfect time, not mine. Thanks once again.
@msjigga (866)
• United States
11 May 07
I became more fertile when I stopped takihg birth control pills. I did not plan it because I was not in the best relationship but it happened. My best friend was having alittle trouble conceiving she has the perfect marriage the only that was missing was a baby. She went on birth control for a little while then she went off, ate alot of salmon & eggs, and prayed. And she is now expectiing her 1st baby girl. She had read somewhere that Salmon and eggs can make you more fertile and if a Man eats raw eggs everyday it can increase his sperm count. I have not clue if this is true because I am not at all a scientist. I wish you the best of luck I believe your child is coming just be patient.
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Thanks for sharing. Yeah, I will have to make a try on that giving tips of fertilization that you are talking about. I am happy for your friend that finally an Angel of hers is soon to arrive in their lives, I congratulate her in advance. Thanks also for the luck you are giving and for the encouragement.
• United States
11 May 07
For me I had no problems conceiving, it was instant, but I can suggest a few tips for you. Find out when you are ovulating you can buy one of them ovulator trackers so you know exactly when is the best times to try and conceive. The best position of course is on your back so your chances are higher for the sperm to get to the egg. You can begin to take vitamins or even folic acid as if you were pregnant it can increase your chances and prepare your body for having a baby. I would try these methods first before you try any fertilization methods. Give nature a chance to take its course. Have you been trying the entire 6 years to conceive?
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Thanks for sharing. Yeah, for the first 2 yrs of our marriage we tried to control for me not to get pregnant yet because we are not prepared yet to have a baby on those past years. Now, that I have really longed for a baby then this years takes time for me to get pregnant. Although I admit that I haven't take any vitamins at all, but now I thank you for giving me such suggestion for me to start taking vitamins. Thanks once again.
@Calais (10900)
• Australia
11 May 07
I think a lot of people focus on it too much, then it becomes like a chore. Just relax and try not to think about it every second. You might get a surprise one day. Eat healthy dosnt hurt either. Good Luck !!!
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Thank you for your suggestion. Yeah, I guess that's what im just going to do is to relax myself and not to worry too much for it, coz I know that when it's God's time for me to have a child then I know it will happen.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
12 Aug 10
Well i can understand the real feelings. My cousin had same problem, she got a kid after 8 years. So dont go dull..its purely a challenge. Surely you will have a baby and never give up. But mean time dont take it so tiresome, need much rest and peaceful mind. You have to find a good gynaecologist and get their advice. Dont stop the treatment which may be for some months, and follow their steps. Be patience and i assure you, you will get a sweet kid sure! You can take my cousin as a best example as she is more patience 8 months. Dont worry!
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
12 Aug 10
* 8 years
• United States
14 Feb 08
Hello, I too could not get pregnant for six years. My husband and I did some fertilization (the ones we could afford) We came up with nothing. We dicided to pray hard for what we wanted. God did answer our prayers and I have a 20 month old precious baby boy taking a nap right now. You have to have faith in God that he can give it to you plus patience. I know it is hard. (Patience part) but one day you will be responding to someone just like I am. I will pray for you. God Bless!
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
16 Feb 08
Hello faithwarrior, thank u so much for your prayers and encouragement that truly means a lot to me. God bless u too!
@jaminnj (21)
• United States
30 Jul 08
We were conceived our first child 6.5 years after being married. We didn't do anything different. So relax, pray Trust God - children are a blessing. There are herbs you can take that may help Evening Primrose oil - False Unicorn - Vitex etc and certainly every woman who may become pregnant should take folic acid and eat properly. Maybe call a midwife and talk to her - she may be able to give you some more natural ideas. An ovulation basal thermometer might be helpful too. Breathe - relax - enjoy your marriage.