If your First Love wanted to get back with you....

United States
May 10, 2007 11:33pm CST
Would you want to? What would you do if your Very first love came to you and begged to have you back, apologized and promised to make things right would you want them back? Possibly assuming you are not currently in another relationship? I am still with my first love so I do not know what will come about, im curious to see what others say :)
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12 responses
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Ask yourself a question that would let you realize if you still love him. Because if you plan to let your relationship get back then for what if you lost love at all? So, it is more likely to make sure if you still have the feelings to nurture a kind of relationship.
@wepay2 (347)
• Australia
12 May 07
you left each other for a reason! you are in for more disappointment ever heard 'once bitten twice shy'? i assume that it takes more than once for you to realize that hitting your finger with a hammer hurts
@Calais (10900)
• Australia
11 May 07
Definantly not. The time was done and the chance is gone. But thats just my opinion.
• Canada
11 May 07
My first true love and i are still friends and once were at a t poitn of getting in to a rellatioship again but we realised we had developed into tow different peopel who woudl nto be compatable but we are still friends adn will always be that.
• United States
11 May 07
My first love was 19 years ago, I was 16. To this day I still think of him on and off but if he was to ever come back and beg me to try again my answer would have to be no. It isn't just because I am married to a wonderful man now, but that does play a small part in it. He hurt me when he left with no warning one morning when I was 5 months pregnant. I cried for month of this man. I believe if he was to just walk back into my life after all of these years it would just open old wounds and wouldn't be worth the heartache. Besides I just might have to kick his rear fom one side of the country to the other for not helping pay for our child for the last 18 1/2 years lol.
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
11 May 07
It depends If he's still available and no commitment at all. Coz sometimes just to win you back they will try everthing they just to have you. But of course if I'm the one maybe I will let him to court me again ofcourse it's better to play hard to get for me to prove that I'm still important to him, if I can make easy for him maybe he will not treasure me.
@diillu (5128)
11 May 07
If not in a relationship..then i think would go over little bit of thinking..stay friends and watch over sometime wether we can go on a relationship or not. If he turns out to be changed..and good..then wwhy not..!!!
• United States
11 May 07
In seven words: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no For many, many reasons but mainly because I'm totally in love with someone else and not at all interested in a relationship with anyone but him.
@lovesu (143)
• China
11 May 07
of course not ,we can be friends ,but not sweetie.
@maddysmommy (16236)
• United States
11 May 07
As much as he was my first love, I don't think I could get back with him even if I was single. So many years have passed and he may not be that same person I met 15 years ago. Even though we ended in good terms, I think I would like to reunite with him in terms of maintaining a "friendship" but not on a romantic level. I have often wondered what has happened to him in terms of his career, life, marriage etc, but I think I would rather move forward than go backwards.
@Hydale (206)
• China
11 May 07
It depends on what the situation is. For example,the girl/man will miss her first love if the existing boyfriend/girlfriend treat her not very good,maybe the girl/man will get back to the first love in this situation.
• Philippines
11 May 07
I fell inlove when i was in high school, He's my first love.. But our relationship didnt work out. After Almost 7yrs, he texted me. He told me he's already successfull abroad. He's working in Dubai and want to fetch those things up. He want to reconcile and put things back again. He said he will back home when i accept him again and get married as soon as possible... I contemplate and ask myself if I still love him.. Though He was my first love and the only man who made me cry, i made a decision not to accept his offer... Coz right now,im deeply inlove with my current boyfriend. We'v been together for 4yrs and he love me so much. Thats when i realized, First love doesnt really last long, the feeling doesnt stay. Even if you said He's your first love,you'll never know who will you committ with someday..