what type of partner would you choose for yourself?
May 12, 2007 12:56am CST
for me, i want to have a partner who is completely my opposite so that there will be a balance in my life. for example, i am messy and disorganized, therefore, my partner should be organized and neat. i am always tardy, therefore, my partner should be an earlybird. things like that makes up my qualities for a partner. what about you?
21 May 07
I married somebody who is the complete opposite of me. We were married for 13 years and were never really happy. I am guessing....it is better to choose a partner who is alike and somebody you share mutual interests with. I am proof the other way does not work :(
16 May 07
I want someone who is God-fearing, someone I'll be very comfortable with to share my innermost thoughts, someone who talks and listens (not just listen!), fun to be with, with a great sense of humor, and responsible enough to be able to provide for me and our future family.
12 May 07
Me, I want a partner who will fill the missing part of my life... I dont know but I had a big missing part of me thats been there for almost half of my life... I just hope that my partner would fill it in... If I ould choose... Unfortunately, my partner never did... but the wonder of it all... is that still IM VERY MUCH HAPPY and omplete... what I mean is... my partner never meet the standard that i've been looking for... but still he made me happy, contented and complete...
• United States
12 May 07
I married someone who shares the same values and interests. However, I've noticed that if both are working to improve the marriage, one person WILL overcome the shortcomings of the other even IF they share the same faults. Both of us are unorganized, but I've taken on that role of organizing. She took on the role of being punctual, even though she was not. Everything does eventually find balance.