Who is your favourite... Mom or Dad???

India
May 13, 2007 2:27am CST
I have always been a Daddy's girl while my Brother was my Mom's favourite. I have often felt jealous and inseccure because of the attention my brother gets from my Mom. Now my Mom is no more... so i am no more jealous or inseccured.
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9 responses
• India
10 Aug 07
Hi Dear, Basically it is quite natural, I feel You can get answer if you think in their view. lets consider Role of Dad,he has to become hard as he has lots of responsibilities..So he need to be Hard.. In case of Mother She needs to behave soft as she has to handle/cope up with the situations..So she appears like Soft...This is the General Behaviour of Mother and Father. But now dad behaves softly with Daughter as he knows that she will get marry one day I will miss her...The same way Mother thinks but she also understands Fact that our Daughter have to take responsibilities there and lots of things need to be done their..So to Achive all that She need to get Hard else daughter may get lazy..and so.. So bottom line of the discussion is Hard Behaviour is not hate..It is love in case of Parents...
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• India
10 Aug 07
Hi Saurabh! I agree with your view and also gave you a best response because I felt that you have hit a point which is very relevant and nobodyelse mentioned. But the actual quesion is.. Who is your favourite.. Mom or Dad... I already know it would be Mom for you.. Thanks for responding.
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• India
10 Aug 07
Dear Friend, Actually Nobody is my favorite..
• India
2 Nov 07
I mean to say that I cant diffenrentiate it nobody is more favourite in that sense..Nothing else
@dk_y2k5 (118)
• India
11 Aug 07
For sure it has to be my MOM. :) I love my mom so much. She's been the biggest spark in my life so far, ever since giving birth and then helping me grow into a good human being (I'm still trying u know...lol) All the good habits , mannerisms that I've learned have been through her lessons on morality. I am really proud of my mother. She's the best thing God's gifted to me along with my GF and my pet ;) THANK YOU GOD! :) *tears of joy* :((
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• India
11 Aug 07
Wow dk_y2k5! That was some answer. If I would not already have selected my best response I would have given it to you. Thanks for your response.
@mr_ilham (1611)
• Indonesia
14 May 07
off course i choose my mother but i love my father too thank you http://mrezanailham.blogspot.com/
• India
14 May 07
HI mr_ilham! Guys are known to be Moms favourites. My Brother was favourite of my Mom too. Thanks for responding.
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@mr_ilham (1611)
• Indonesia
15 May 07
your welcome by the way do you have web or blog? i have http://mrezanailham.blogspot.com
@niang03 (147)
• China
20 May 07
Well...since i was a kid,my favourite is my dad..yes,my dad..i love him.i love my mom too,but mostly my dad..cause he can understand my feeling..with him, i become myself..i can express all my thoughts to him..
• India
21 May 07
Hi niang03! I am attached to my Dad too. LOng back when i was still a child i remember saying that when i become big i want to marry my Dad. When i indeed became big i was looking for such a person with qualities of my Dad,lol.
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@tinamwhite (3255)
• United States
14 May 07
My parents got divorced when I was 2...so I grew up with my mother....when I was 16 I went to live with my father....now Mom lives with me due to health problems...and Dad may end up with me as well, due to his declining health...I guess, I have been favored by both of them at differing times in my life.... I have never really been jealous of my siblings but hae seen some jealousy between my own children at times...I try not to show any favortism...but each of my children have needed "special" help from time to time and I always try to be there for them when they need that.
• India
14 May 07
Hi tinamwhite! I am sorry to know that you had a difficult life. We all learn from our misakes and rectify them. Even i had taken a decision that i would never show favourtism to my children. Thanks for expressing your views here.
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• Kottayam, India
13 May 07
Lovelydame, How dare you are lost your mothers love,but still you can, cherishing the values your mother held.I also lost my mother, I still hope She would have been here.
• India
14 May 07
It's not that i do not miss my Mom. I was always jealous that my Brother was my Mom's favourite. Thanks for expressing your views here.
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• India
13 May 07
This is a puzzling question. Everyone love his or her parents. What happened With you is a universal fact. Even being a boy i am also my mom's favorite. Its true that boys are always Thats why i am a fan of my mom than my dad.
• India
14 May 07
Hi prateekchalana! Thanks for expressing your views. My brother was my Moms favourite and i was always jealous of him. Thanks for responding to my discussion.
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@tellus (1445)
• Finland
13 May 07
my mom is the best!
• India
13 May 07
Hi tellus! Thanks for responding to my discussion. Normally females are more closer to their dad. I remember wanting to marry my Dad,lol.
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• Romania
2 Nov 07
Well when i was a little child i would say that my mother but now both of them.They are our parents and deserve our full attention.