Would you still choose your husband?

@toplen (335)
Philippines
May 13, 2007 8:32am CST
Say, you were given a chance to redo your life. One part of it is your whole marriage life, would you still choose your current husband to be your partner or someone else? Would you redo it or not? Appreciate your thoughts :)
4 people like this
10 responses
@ravinskye (8245)
• United States
13 May 07
If I were given the chance...well right now I would say no. Right now I'm pregnant with his 3rd child and we got in a huge fight yesterday. He complains he wants "free" time, but I'm expected to stay home all the time. I chose to be a stay at home mom which i thought he supported, but now i get guilt tripped for it all the time. I thought over time in our marriage he would grow to think of me as a best friend and wife and talk to me..after 6 years he still can't tell me what he's really thinking. Mothers day and he makes me regret having kids, like i trapped him into something he didn't want :(
@Michele21 (3095)
• United States
13 May 07
I am so sorry your hubby is being a jerk!! Hopefully it will get better and tomorrow he will realize how lucky he is to have you and your kids in his life!! Just be good for your kids and hopefully he will get a clue soon that being a stay-at-home mom is ghard work, especially when you are pregnant!!
1 person likes this
@bruxedo (773)
• France
13 May 07
Very hard situation. And not having a job turns everything much more difficult.. I think. you can't go out of your home for a while and make him feel whats his life without you. Perhaps he would think diferently after some time. But this is only what I think right now and not being envolved in the situation.. I really don't know if I could do it..
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
OH, I know how you feel. Sometimes when we fight, I tend to really hate him for awhile but when we make up, everything is like a bed of roses again. I hope things will be ok for you and your husband tomorrow...everyday is a Mother's day anyways :) Happy Mom's day :)
@freeshia (22)
• Philippines
15 May 07
yes i'll still choose my husband. we love each other very much. what about you? will you still choose your current hsband too?
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
16 May 07
oh, definitely yes. Being together for 8 years, i think we're inseparable, but God only knows that's why i'm always praying that He'll keep us together forever. Funny thing is, I asked my husband this question b4 i posted it here. we both have the same answers :) thanks for responding :)
• Philippines
16 May 07
you're welcome. :)
1 person likes this
@nicolecab (923)
• United States
14 May 07
I know I would do everything the same. My husband and I have a beautiful baby boy and I could not imagine not haveing him in my life!! Yeah my husband and I have our rough spots but we push through them and we always seem to come out closer together and a much stronger couple!!
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
15 May 07
you're right...giving up on a marriage is not an option. we should always try to work it out for the sake of our kids :) congratulations :) thanks
1 person likes this
• United States
15 May 07
yes, never give up unless you have tried everything you possibly can. good luck!!!
1 person likes this
@stacy624 (2777)
• Canada
14 May 07
If I had to redo my life all over again I would for sure be with the man of my dreams the father of my babies, he is not only my lover, but is my Best friend, my supporter, and so so much more Thank you for letting me share Stacy
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
15 May 07
awww...that is so touching. COngratulations and keep it up :)
@stacy624 (2777)
• Canada
15 May 07
Thank you so much =) Stacy
1 person likes this
@Sicantik (706)
14 May 07
I will still choose my husband because we are now have two wonderful son, and I wouldn't change them for anything in the world. All the best and have a nice day...xx
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
15 May 07
you too...thanks
@Anakata2007 (1789)
• Canada
14 May 07
to be honest I'm not sure. I mean my husband is the best person I'v ever met, but things have happenned since we were married that have caused me to question whether or not we are meant for each other. Nothing bad on his part but I have so far shown that my body is unable to produce a child, and he really wanted kids. That's a big thing. So sometimes I think "If I had known this, I would never have married him". It's hard to go through your whole life thinking and knowing that you let someone down, especially when it's the person you love the most in the whole world.
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
Awww.. I want you to know that we're undergoing the same test in life. My husband and I have been married for 8+ years and we still don't have a child. I have the problem coz of my hormonal imbalance and uterine hyperplasia. My husband has been so understanding about my situation. It helps that his brothers have sons and daughters coz he gets to borrow and play with them. Sometimes, when he gets tired of playing with them, he tells me that he's happy with how things are going with us coz he can't stand being around with kids for a long time. ALthough he wants to have kids, he isn't putting pressure on me coz we're still enjoying our time together. I tell him that he's my baby and I'm his. Don't be too harsh on yourself, it isn't your fault and i'm sure your husband understands you too. Don't put this in the middle of your marriage instead try to enjoy your time together, travel together, go to the mall together, eat out...stuff like those that will put your mind away from your present situation. I'm sure we will have a child someday soon....there is a time for everything and God has his own plans for us :)
• Philippines
14 May 07
I will definitely choose my husband. I believe that there is no accidents in life. that this is God's plan for me.
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
I'm sure it is :) thanks
@RosieS57 (892)
• United States
13 May 07
I agree that second time is the charm. My hubby can be a handful but he's smart and caring and sweet. I also wouldn't go back to the first husband but this second one is terrific. My friends say so, too.
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
that's great to hear! Congratulations!
@mrsbrian (1951)
• United States
13 May 07
I sure would I have been so happy with my husband I must say I was married before for 30 years and that one I would not redo I would marry him again and again,Im just sad that I didnt meet him long ago,but hey we learn from our mistakes and Im glad I got it right the second time around
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
yeah, congratulations you found the perfect guy for you :)
@mamasan34 (6522)
• United States
13 May 07
Well, The Rock is not available so yes, I would definitely choose my current husband to be in my life. I don't think I can see myself wtih anyone else. We just fit each other. It is like we understand each other's language while everyone else speaks a different version. LOL
1 person likes this
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
Lolz..same here :) I'd choose my husband again too.