healing

United States
May 13, 2007 12:21pm CST
I am still healing after the loss of a sister two months ago.My sister has two little kids and we are trying to raise up they are 6 and 4 and they have there ups and down the youngest thinks his mom is just on away on a trip somewhere and that she don't love him and thats why she is not coming back.I told him that she do loves him and that she is in heaven looking down on us.The oldest the father wants her and he never been in his life before my sister passed and now he is not in her life since my sister passed.Tell me if we are doing the right thing by taking him to court and fight for her to stay with us?
3 responses
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
13 May 07
I feel father is totally unknown to children, so better have a talk with their father and try to reason with him that children have already lost their mother so if he will take away the elder, why he wants to do injustice to the younger. Sometimes a bit of talking solves lots of problems, so pray to god and talk to him to see the sense.
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• United States
13 May 07
The youngst has a diffent dad I dont feel that this is the time to have the kids in differnt home they loss ther mom and I dont want her to feel that we dont love hear and that we dont want her.I want her to know that she is loved and that her mom loves her too.
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• Philippines
14 May 07
well the rules said that the children must be at there parents if the other party have passed away the other party will take place but in every rule an option is being offered if you think that thats the best thing for the children, then go on.. just be assured that you are doing the best thing.. okey??
• United States
19 May 07
We realised that but however my sister wrote up somthing that if anything were to happened to her that my mom will take care of the kids as if they are thier own.
@suscan (1957)
• United States
14 May 07
I think you are doing the right thing. I am sorry about the loss of your sister. It will be so hard for her babies,they have to adjust to the loss of their mother, but then sot separate them will be even more traumatic. I will remember your family in my prayers.
• United States
19 May 07
I want to thany you. My mom has temp. of the youngest.We are hping for the best for the oldest.I hope that he will let her stay in the only home that she knows.