How is your marriage going?

@djmarion (4901)
Philippines
May 13, 2007 11:46pm CST
do you have a strong married life? or you have a rocky relationship? what do you do to save your marriage if you have the latter situation?
5 responses
@mflower2053 (3227)
• United States
14 May 07
I think every marriage has a rocky moment. Alot of times more then once. The fun part about having those situations is figuring out things together as a team. You both came into the marriage together so you both have to be willing to work at it together. My marriage is pretty strong. If something is bothering us we talk about it and see what we can do to make it better. We have a good friendship which makes it easier to talk to one another.
@djmarion (4901)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
thanks for the advice mflower :)
@kaka135 (14161)
• Malaysia
14 May 07
I have just married for one year, but I've been together with him for more than 8 years. I'm having a happy life staying together with him, though there were small arguments sometimes. But these didn't really affect our relationship, as we really appreciate each other. In order to save the marriage, it depends on the situation and both parties.
@djmarion (4901)
• Philippines
15 May 07
thanks kaka, goodluck on your marriage,hope i will be stronger as time pass by.
• United States
14 May 07
My husband and I have a very strong marriage.We are just as happy today as we were the day we got married.We take the time out to talk about how our days went and we take the time to say I love you.We treat each other the way we each want to be treated.If a person is mean to the other person, then thats the way the other person will treat you. Having a loving marriage is not a piece of cake, you have to work on it and treat today as if it were your last day with one another and love one another just the way you did when you first married.
@djmarion (4901)
• Philippines
15 May 07
you are one lucky person, you know high percentage of marriage today are in a haste, and knowing you have a strong one is a good thing, this would prove methat good marriage still exist.
• India
14 May 07
As I am unmarried this time, so no comments. I am enjoying unmarried life very well. Hope soon I will be married then tell you the true story/experience. My observation is that most of the marriage relations are not so good. Always tense is there between husband and wife. No one is ready for compromise and such couples are dragging the relationship for long. Only few have maintained good relation with either wife or husband and enjoying happy married life. Their life is full of satisfaction and understanding. so no quarrel in life. God bless all married couples a very happy life.
@djmarion (4901)
• Philippines
14 May 07
i hope you can find worthy woman who will become your wife, and when you do take care of your relationship for good. good luck friend.
• France
4 Aug 07
I've been married one year only but we've been together 4 yers. And sincerely, I love it!! I don't find it hard at all, but maybe because my husband used to be my best friend, so we know each other very well before even dating. We were already aware of the good sides and bad sides of each other's character, so there are no bad surpises! We talk a lot, and even if he tends to keep things inside, I sense when there is something wrong and i try my best to make him talk. You should always talk when there something wrong, small as it can be, because if you keep it to yourself, it becomes huge and totally out of proportion. I think we help each other become better persons... i don't think of anybody esle I could have made this commitment to and feel so at ease with it.